Officiant Meeting

I'd ask what he plans on saying in terms of religion (if that is specifically wanted or unwanted) if that hasn't already been discussed. I'm not a fan of the whole "lecture" of what marriage constitutes, but it seems a lot of officiants do that. I'd mention if there is anything specific you want him to say or not say in terms of you as a couple (how you met, a fond memory, etc.).

Thank you! We know we do want some talk about what a marriage in Christ means, just not a full blown 'you're all damned to hell' sermon (because who wants that at a wedding?)

Oh that's smart

I know he will be open to basically any changes, so that's a good thing to ask! Thank you Cyndy!