Our officiate is coming to our venue for an hour rehearsal and then we have the rehearsal dinner/BBQ down the road at future MIL & FIL's house....is it proper etiquette to invite the officiate? She is not a friend but did marry FH's sister last year and is a friend of her husbands family, so she would know them and their daughter. I am completely okay with it her coming but didn't know what the protocol was. Are you inviting yours to rehearsal dinner?