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Tatjana
Savvy October 2020

October brides

Tatjana, on March 16, 2020 at 7:29 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 20

My wedding is in October and im completely stressing out, we have been engaged since december and we still need to do so much it feels like we won't have time to plan everything.

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Latest activity by Tatjana, on March 17, 2020 at 5:43 PM
  • Kevin
    Super October 2021
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    Our wedding is also in October. It will all come together once you get the basics and you still have months to go. Just focus on one vendor at a time and you’ll be a lot less stressed. Get your venue and date first! Then catering and photographer. Also ask the vendors you book for other vendors they recommend we hardly looked for ours because we got such good recommendations from our venue and other vendors! Good luck!!
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  • Tatjana
    Savvy October 2020
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    Thanks Megan, another question is it strange to have my godfather's son be the Photographer for our wedding, he just completed his bachelors in photography?

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  • Kevin
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    Nope as long as you like his work. Don’t settle for a photographer whose style you don’t like just because they are friends or family. You want to love your pics at the end of the day and if he can’t deliver than don’t settle. If you like him as a person and a photographer than go for it. Nothing weird about it. My sister had her old college roommates cousin as her photographer. As long as they take good photos no weirdness at all.
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  • Tatjana
    Savvy October 2020
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    How is your wedding planning going??

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  • Kevin
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    Pretty good. We have our venue, caterer, photographer and florist. Still working on the last couple vendors. I need a chair rental guy too. We just got our bridesmaid dresses this past weekend. My FH and I can’t decide what the groomsmen are wearing. He wants suspenders I want vests lol. We are having such a hard time with decor there are so many options for table numbers and centerpieces idk if I want to buy rent diy?! My Pinterest page looks like a war zone !! Trying to make it as stress free as possible but I get worked up over the littlest things!
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  • Tatjana
    Savvy October 2020
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    How do you choose who sits where because i feel like my wedding is so big that i don't know who to sit whith who ??

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  • Kevin
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    We are doing open seating for the ceremony with just some reserved seats for immediate family. We are doing assigned seating at tables , not places at tables for the dinner part. We are doing like ages and how we know people. Family friends with family friends. We are basing it off age and if we think people would get along okay enough for an hour at dinner. Make a list of all the tables you have and then group people you don’t want to separate together then you’ll have a group of four and a group of four and there you have your table of eight or whatever. We did ours that way and it worked out pretty well!
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  • Tatjana
    Savvy October 2020
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    Where are u having you wedding?

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  • Kevin
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    It’s at a state park in Riverside Ca. The ceremony is outdoors on a big lawn under trees and the reception is inside a banquet hall. I am obsessed with our venue! October brides 1

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  • Kevin
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    Have you picked your venue yet?
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  • Tatjana
    Savvy October 2020
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    Yes i have, its in france its a castle on the water it is so gorgeuos

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  • Kevin
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    That sounds like a Disney princess movie! I’m so jealous. Do you like over there or is it a destination wedding?
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  • Tatjana
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    Its a destination wedding. the reason we chose France is because thats where me and my fiance first said "i lovr u"

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  • Tabitha
    Devoted October 2020
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    I’m also October. I’ve only booked my venue and DJ. I’m suppose to book the person to handle all the decor this Saturday but this virus has me super nervous to put anymore money out there. I just don’t know what to do.
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  • Samantha
    VIP October 2020
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    I still need a caterer and a florist. We’re definitely getting nervous about not having a caterer yet. Then, the wedding party needs to order apparel, we need our wedding bands, and we need to pay off the venue and finish buying decor.
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  • Krys
    Dedicated October 2020
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    We're october 11 and I think i've got all the big stuff (venue, photographer, officiant caterer, bartender) but I keep thinking of little stuff like Ice or decor and I feel panicked over everything that has to come together. I'm such a perfectionist when it comes to planning that this is overwhelming sometimes. BUT we've still got almost 7 months. Plenty of time for things to come together. I got a checklist online and am going one thing at a time.

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  • Tatjana
    Savvy October 2020
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    Im so stressed as well, ours is october 15, but i feel like 7 months isn't enough

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  • Tatjana
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    We still have so much to do aswell, when is your wedding ??

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  • Samantha
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    Ours is the 10th, what about yours?

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  • Tatjana
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    Ours is the 15th

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