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Elle
Master March 2015

Nwr: so worried that the bridge of my nose is twitching

Elle, on September 17, 2014 at 10:27 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 7

A lot of you know that life has been crazy stressful lately. First me being unemployed for a month, then car troubles, then fh losing his job as soon as i became employed again, then my mother.... The list goes on.

Fh is employed again. We arent behind bills yet, but by the time he gets his first paycheck we will be. I have been stressed about money, but havent put any pressure on him as he upsets easy, and he was looking for a job the whole time he was unemployed.

Fh has mild depression, and his meds havent been working lately. He's been at the new job for all of three days, and he's miserable but doesnt know why. He told me he cried all the way to work today for no apparent reason.

I just dont know what to do. I feel so guilty for being happy with my new job, while he's crying in his truck. Smiley sad ugh. Thanks for letting me rant girls...

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Latest activity by Elle, on September 17, 2014 at 1:40 PM
  • Kate
    Master May 2012
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    Aww, I'm sorry to hear it...hope you two can stick together and things will work out.

    And ww is a great place for ranting, in case you hadn't noticed. Smiley smile

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  • Alana
    Devoted October 2014
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    Aw, I'm sorry about your stress. You have good reasons for it. Just know that a lot of us out here are going through the same things. You're not alone!

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  • Annael25
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    I'm sorry you're going through this. Smiley sad All you can do is be there for him. I don't even know the guy and I feel sad that he was crying in his truck. Maybe he is just adjusting and that's why he feels so miserable? Change is really difficult for a lot of people.

    Definitely use WW to rant. Smiley smile It's a good outlet for sure!

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  • Enya
    VIP July 2015
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    God, the emotions must be killer. the loss of a job - even once he's gotten a new job - rattles even the most stoic. there might be some relief he's found a job, he may not be happy with the job or worried about where he's going with his future, and just general insanity of how out of control everything might feel.

    you're awesome just for listening to him and being supportive. good luck Smiley smile

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  • OG Ruth
    Master October 2015
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    Do you think he has anxiety about the new job? When my FH started his new job (after being laid off for months) he was so nervous & sick for weeks.

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  • Angie
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    I'm just waiting for magic to happen! You know, like Samantha on bewitched!

    On a serious note, I'm sorry your going through this and I hope it gets better soon!

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  • Elle
    Master March 2015
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    Thanks again girls. The lunch time phone call from fh seems promising. He doesn't sound nearly as sad as he did this morning. Still sad, but not as sad.

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