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Nursing Mamas at wedding?

Jessica, on September 3, 2019 at 1:42 PM Posted in Planning 0 9

Wedding is in 18 Days, gah! We have a number of new moms who are nursing. We aren't having kids or babies at the wedding; however, we'd like to make the nursing mamas lives as easy as possible considering the circumstances. We will be offering the bridal suite so that they can have some privacy (well, private amongst other nursing moms pumping at least). The venue said that they have a refrigerator, but that it's used for food and that if it were her (the venue coordinator), she'd just bring her own cooler for sanitary reasons.


The question is, how do bring this up with new moms? I feel like if I were a nursing mom attending a wedding I would want to know what the scoop was in advance - like, will I have a place to nurse? Should we bring the car instead of take the shuttle? Where should I put my stuff? Anyway, do I send the ladies a text saying "hey mamas, we've reserved a suite for you at the reception venue for you and other nursing moms. While the venue says you can use their fridge, they recommended bringing your own cooler for sanitary reasons". Or should I bring a cooler and mention that they can use that? But then it makes it weird when they need to go back to the hotel with milk and such and splitting it up. Or do I mention it the day of the wedding?? And if so, how? . . . Any moms out there who can help a somewhat clueless but hopeful bride? :-)

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Latest activity by Abby, on September 3, 2019 at 7:22 PM
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    Master January 2015
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    I think sending a text with exactly what you said would be perfect. That lets them know you have something to accommodate them and also allows them to make their own arrangements if necessary. Smiley smile Very considerate of you also!

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  • VIP November 2021
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    I would send out - group or individual texts/calls and talk to them about it - same as above comment !!
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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
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    You are very thoughtful and I’m sure these moms will appreciate it. I would just reach out and call or text them and tell them what you have arranged for them.
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
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    I agree that calling them would be the best option!

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    Wait, are you actually allowing them to nurse (as in, bring their babies?) or just having a room available to pump? If just a room, you should be clear about that and avoid using the term "place to nurse" as that implies they can bring babies.

    I think a text would be fine.

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  • Jennifer
    VIP October 2021
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    Wedding websites are Great for that!
    “New Moms” tab and put something like: “Hi all you new moms out there! To make your life easier we have set up the Bridal suite to give you some privacy when it’s time to nurse baby, or change baby. We also will supply a cooler and sharpie should you need them.” That way they can know what to expect.
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  • Mcskipper
    Master July 2018
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    This wording threw me for a loop too— definitely avoid saying “a place to nurse” if there’s no babies involved— what you’re providing in that case is a place to pump. Even if I didn’t think you were initially inviting kids, if you reached out to me and said the bridal suite was available for nursing, I’d presume you were saying the newborns were an exception and this was your way of saying it, and I’d show up with my baby!
    So, be careful with wording!
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  • Mcskipper
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    Also if the venue’s fridge is just in the kitchen it sounds like more hassle than it is worth and isn’t even worth mentioning. I’d probably only suggest the fridge as an option if it was something within the bridal suite, or if it was some kind of emergency where there was no other option available.
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    Expert January 2020
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    Would the venue allow you to bring a mini fridge and place it in the bridal suite? That way they would have everything they need in one space instead of walking around with a cooler?
    Also you could section the mini fridge off like this shelf is reserved for Xx this is reserved for xx ...or maybe even provide some small bins (with their names on it) to place in the milk in the fridge.
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