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Madison
Beginner November 2020

November date and worried

Madison, on April 23, 2020 at 3:47 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 4
I know it’s way too soon to know what will be happening during that time however I was just about to send out invites in early April and now i just don’t know when to send it and how. It feels strange to ask people to decide to come without even knowing how it will be. Anyone having similar thoughts? How are you dealing with your guests and their questions?

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Latest activity by Tiger Bride, on April 23, 2020 at 11:44 AM
  • Futuremrsn
    Devoted October 2020
    Futuremrsn ·
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    If your date is in November I’d wait until at least late summer or early September to send out invites. At this point and depending on how things are by then, your guests will have to make that decision. My wedding is in October (rescheduled from May) and I’m planning on sending invites in early August, and depending on CDC regulations and guest decision, we will make our final count by the rsvp date we chose.
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  • Jennifer
    Dedicated January 2021
    Jennifer ·
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    Hi!!! July 17th Bride here! I feel you pain, worry, and anger! This whole situation is just stressful because it is so unknown and seems to change day by day. I am still moving forward as planned for now. I am live in Florida and I am having the wedding here, but 100% of my guests will be coming from out of state (worries me the most), my guest list is already under 50 which is a positive thing at this point, but still has me wondering what can happen before then and will these re-opening phases work and make it worse. My fiance is completely positive we are having our wedding on our date, which makes me feel good, but sometimes the news and everything I read gets me down. I am trying to place all my faith in God and just know he has a plan of how my day should go. Currently my venue along with all my vendors has been a blessing. My venue has a hold date on November 1st as a back up if need be without any extra charges. Only thing is if another bride is looking at that date I will have to make an immediate decision, so it can happen anytime. I am trying to wait and see what May and the beginning of June looks like and how things are progressing before I need to make an ultimate decision for my guest. Everyone seems ok with coming as long as they can travel. I am praying for everyone going through this and my suggestion is to keep the faith!! I am praying if my July date doesn't play out, that November is a hopeful date and far enough out to see many changes and can re-evaluate in the coming months if need be. Sending lots of love!!!

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  • N
    VIP September 2020
    Neeva ·
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    I would wait until September to send your invites out to give people time to process everything with covid. If you want to send out save the dates now you could and link your wedding website
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  • T
    Super April 2021
    Tiger Bride ·
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    It's too early to send invites out anyway - people lose them, forget about them even without all of this. We are October and targeting July to send invites and even that is a little early! You can send save the dates if you want and maybe include a little note that you're watching the situation to see what happens.

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