November 2021 Brides!

My wedding isn't in November 2021, but just get used to everyone having an opinion on things that have to do with your planning and wedding. But try not to let it get to you, at the end of the day it's you and your fiance's day. Do whatever you guys want to do and whatever makes you two happy. People will ALWAYS have an opinion and there will be some people who don't agree with the way you want things to go. Try not to stress too much, good luck with everything!

I agree and it is so tough (at least for me in my area) because all of my top picks were booked up already! I thought that I was ahead of the game by starting in July since it was more than a year out, but with all of the COVID brides having to reschedule a lot of places are filling up! I got lucky I suppose and I don't have much of a family so no opinions there and my FW's family could care less lol so it is just me and her planning. I just need her to stop trying to change her mind on things lol.

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I got the venue I wanted which was such a relief! I just never knew how rude strangers could be! I had a woman I did not know ask me if I was engaged after noticing my ring, and then asked when I was planning on getting married, after I told her November of 2021 she frowned at me and said she hoped I was prepared to cancel it due to COVID. So discouraging! Have you guys found a venue yet?

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I have had that from strangers as well asking me if I have had any problems planning because of COVID or saying things like "hope you won't have to cancel". So I get it it is frustrating because where in the world do they think that it is okay to say that to someone that they don't even know! But luckily yes we were able to find a venue. It wasn't my top choice or even my second choice but it is nice comes with lots of extras!

Hi there, fellow November 2021 bride!! We were scheduled to get married November 2020, but decided back in March to postpone it until November 2021. Everyone said we were crazy for postponing so early because the virus would probably be cleared up by November.... so glad we didn’t listen to them!! If we had, i’m sure we wouldn’t have been able to secure the same date next year at our venue. Moral of the story... Don’t worry about other people’s opinions on your wedding! We are remaining optimistic that things will be much better in a year. I wouldn’t let needless worrying rob you of your wedding planning experience.

We ended up choosing to postpone our 10/10/2020 wedding until 11/6/2021 so yes I totally hear you about the Rollercoaster of Emotions. Its hard to feel excited because "once bitten, twice shy". I had an account all set up here from the October date and out of haste and tears I completely deleted it. So now working on making the new one...


Everyone will have an opinion about everything! I tried to limit who I discuss things with so I only get opinions I actually care to hear.