Hi all,
My fiance and I had originally planned to get married December of 2018. However, we went through some tough times last year and finally decided to postpone the wedding until things got back to normal and we were finally able to save money again.
Cut to now August 2019, I really want to start planning again as I don't just want to be engaged forever and want to finally be married. When I was planning the wedding the first time I was very excited and happy to plan all the details. But this time around I am finding myself feeling overwhelmed and not too excited to do anything. We want to set the wedding for the beginning of 2020, March ideally. My fiance said we should wait until we actually have all the money saved to start planning, but that wouldn't give us enough time to plan. If we continue saving at the rate we have now we will have enough for March.
Anyways, sorry for the long rant but I'm just not sure where to start again and how to feel excited again. We have a venue picked which allowed us to change the date of the wedding, which was great since we had already paid the down payment. The venue already comes with photographer, florist, cake, food, and DJ. I also already have a dress purchased. So while it feels like everything is already done, I also feel like I still have a lot to do.
My questions are/things I would like some input on are: have you experienced postponing a wedding and then not feeling excited after? What can I do to feel good about planning again? What should I tackle first so I feel like I'm on the right track?
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