Not a bridesmaid and possibly lying about bachelorette plans?

I am close with 2 siblings. Both were in my wedding. Earlier this year I found out I am not a bridesmaid and the reasoning was that there were not enough groomsmen on his side. I offered that my partner can step in, but friend rejected that idea, fine whatever...
One sibling is having a baby shower that a family member and I are hosting. At a get together the family member asked if friend was coming over the day before to set up to help with siblings baby shower. She proceeded to tell family member that she might have her bachelorette party the day before as family is flying in (some of these people are also married). When she was leaving, I asked what she wanted to for her bachelorette. This is before I knew she was discussing plans with my family member. She said she did not know. I casually messaged her asking about the day before and she said she would be coming the morning before the party. This tells me that she could possible be hiding something as she has not mentioned her party at all. Report Quote Reply to PostLeave a Reply