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Crystal
Beginner September 2020

Non-traditional Wedding- Anxiety & Ceremony

Crystal, on October 17, 2019 at 8:04 AM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 5

New here, just got engaged a couple weeks ago and have started the planning process. I have fairly significant anxiety and I have already dreaded the ceremony. So we have decided to do away with an "aisle" as this will be a wedding on my parents property (40+acres with pond) but then I was stuck on how to begin the ceremony. One idea I like is to just greet everyone, be there when they arrive and both myself and FH can be there greeting then we begin and there is no awkward entrance for me where I have a panic attack. Still working on the guest list but hoping to be no more than 100 people but would prefer it to be less.

The wedding is camping themed (we are big outdoors-people) it will be fairly laid back, a local BBQ place catering, yard games, using our Airstream as our photo-booth and prop, and big bonfire in the evening with smores. I am going to be a 40 year old first time bride and I really want to do what works for us while keeping the cost down. So what are people's thoughts on just being there when people arrive, in my dress and greeting them, I think it would help my anxiety to not have to enter but to be able to greet each person one at a time. We don't have a strict schedule to stick too so if they talk too much I think we would be good still.

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Latest activity by Melle, on October 17, 2019 at 11:15 AM
  • M
    Expert September 2020
    Marcia ·
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    I love the idea of greeting your guests.
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  • Brandi
    Devoted July 2020
    Brandi ·
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    Hi and congratulations! I definitely think you will have to do what's comfortable for you and if that's what you agree will work, then it sounds good. You can greet people as they come in. It will be your receiving line backwards so to speak. It can appear almost as a little cocktail hour. The officiant can ensure that everyone is ready for the ceremony and gather everyone to their seats. Then, you and your FI can "walk" together and begin the ceremony so, all eyes won't totally be on you.

    I hope this helps. Remember, it's your wedding and you can absolutely do exactly as you want. Enjoy!

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  • Emma
    Devoted March 2021
    Emma ·
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    I think greeting your guests is great! Its like a receiving line people do after the ceremony, yours would just be before.

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  • Jodie
    Expert August 2020
    Jodie ·
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    First off, Congrats on your engagement! Like you, I am will be a 40 year old first time bride (always thought I didn't want to get married...turns out I just didn't meet the right guy yet! lol) We are also doing a casual backyard BBQ type of wedding. Both of us are really anxious at the thought of having to be in the spotlight all day (we are fairly quiet, introverted, people who prefer to be at home alone with our pets...) I'm terrified of the walking down the aisle and being the center of attention for the ceremony. I think being there to greet your guests together will be a very sweet way to begin your ceremony! Good luck!

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    There's people who start off the ceremonies by already being in the front and thennnn the guests come in
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