A couple years back I threw my sister and her now husband a Jack & Jill before their wedding. My sister, being my matron of honor, would like to throw us a Jill & Jill and is very excited to do so. However, my fiance said her mother has always dreamed of having a wedding shower for her. If it were a heterosexual relationship, typically it's a stag for the Groom, and wedding shower for the Bride. Or just a Jack and Jill they both attend.
Do we have both a Jill & Jill, and a wedding shower? Our thought process is, if people come to the Jill and Jill, 2 to 1 they spend money on either a ticket, or a raffle basket, etc. Then we invite the same people to a wedding shower, where they will now, have to bring a gift on top of the money they already spent at the Jill & Jill? Etiquette is mainly what we're trying to keep in mind here.
Has anyone gone through something similar? Opinions? Ideas? Advice?