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Joey
Just Said Yes September 2020

Non-traditional bridal party

Joey, on April 12, 2020 at 6:16 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 4

Hello all!

Im currently planning on having a Maid of Honor, Brideman of Honor, and Matron of Honor as my bridal party. Too much? I'm an only child, so all three are some of my oldest and (definitely) closest friends. Not family.

My Cousin ( who I stood with for her wedding, but really have never been close to, she's 10 years older than me.) and my FH's two sisters will also be in the ceremony. My cousin and the older of my two FSIL's will walk in with their daughters (my flower girls), and my other FSIL with walk his parents in.

The three friends in my party have always been there for me, thick and thin, and all three have know us as a couple my entire relationship. I can't say the same for his sisters and my cousin, but still wanted them involved.

I guess I just wanna see how out there I am with this, it feels really right to me. but obviously I don't want to snub anyone, or seem off base.

4 Comments

Latest activity by Leslie, on April 13, 2020 at 12:48 AM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    I think giving three people “honor” roles, pretty much takes away from the honor.


    It’s fine not to have anyone in your wedding party that you don’t want in it. If your husband wants his family in the wedding, he can ask them to stand on his side.
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  • V
    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    I tend to agree. I would probably either only have one person of honor or none in this case. It doesn't really seem like an honor if you are naming three people. As for his sisters and your cousin, I would only involve them if you are truly close to them and want them involved. If your husband wants his siblings in the wedding, then I would have them be on his side.

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  • Sara
    Just Said Yes December 2020
    Sara ·
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    I am one to believe that it’s your wedding and you should do what would make you most happy. I’m not having a wedding party at all because that makes the most sense for me.
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  • L
    Super October 2020
    Leslie ·
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    I had a patron of honor back in the 90’s along with my sister matron of honor. Have who you want. It will work.

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