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Savvy July 2018

Non Sappy Father of the Bride Gift

Sarah, on May 16, 2018 at 2:38 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 7

My dad and I have a unique relationship. We aren't super close and I've never been a "daddy's little girl" type of girl. However, my dad has always been there for me and my parents are paying for about 70% of the wedding so I would like to give him a gift as a thank you for all that he has done.

Now, my dad has a lot of hobbies, but he and I are a lot alike in our Amazon addiction, and pretty much anything that he would want relating to hobbies, he would get. He doesn't dress up, like to the point of needing cuff-links, he rarely wears ties, he doesn't golf, he doesn't drink liquor often enough, he doesn't smoke cigars. He does like "techy" type stuff, but then again, if it's something he wants, he generally will buy it.

So I'm at a loss. I'm not the type of girl to get one of those things "of all the walks we've taken this is my favorite" or "I loved you first"

Also, I hate the idea of gift cards. They just seem too impersonal to me. Like, why would I give my dad money?

Any ideas?

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Latest activity by FutureMrs.V, on May 16, 2018 at 6:25 PM
  • Tracy
    Dedicated June 2018
    Tracy ·
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    My dad (and mom actually) are the same way and it took me forever to think of something. For holidays and birthdays I always gift them gift cards to Amazon or one of their favorite restaurants. I wanted to do something that was a bit more special that they could keep, but not be dumb cheesy. My mom told me over and over again she didn't want jewelry (since he has a ton of very nice and expensive jewelry already).

    In the end I got them a custom Christmas ornament that would be a keepsake, but then also added a big gift card to Mastros for a dinner. I figured it was best of both worlds haha.

    Wood Engraved Ornament

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  • Nicole
    Savvy April 2018
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    My dad is the same way--if he wants something, he buys it, and he wouldn't use any of the 'traditional' gifts of cuff links, etc. I ended up getting him a personalized Tervis tumbler that had "Father of the Bride" (Tervis has a cool decal that says this) on one side, and his first name and the date on the other.

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    Maybe something tech related he doesn't know about or wouldn't think to buy? My father in law likes tech stuff, he loves his drone and drone accessories. Last Christmas we got him a smart sprinkler system, and this year we are going to get him a smart blind set and smart light bulbs. I'm sure he would buy them if he saw them, but doesn't sit around researching them so he wouldn't know. For his birthday we paid for his year long Ring (smart doorbell) subscription. I've also seen a smart garage door system that was pretty cool. For my dad, he is the same and would buy himself stuff if he wanted it. We do have a "I loved you first" kind of relationship, but I don't get him sappy gifts for holidays (I probably will for the wedding). Some random gifts we have gotten him in the past include a telescope, a phone attachment for his telescope, a margarita machine, and a pair of cowboy boots.

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  • Kiwibride
    Super November 2018
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    I'd probably go with a gift voucher for dinner at a nice restaurant or tickets to a show/sports game/whatever he's into and a card to write any sentimental stuff in
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    Dedicated May 2018
    Sharay ·
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    I’m not sappy like that either with my father and he doesn’t dress up or anything. But he loves to BBQ and I’m sure he has bbq equipment already but I got him a custom craved bamboo case with five grilling tools the front of the case has custom engraving they also had it to where you could engrave the handles of the tools
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  • FutureMrs.V
    Super June 2018
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    I got all of the dads a mug like this. This is my dads. I also got him a handkerchief that is sentimental, but I wanted a gift they would laugh about/ a keepsake. I think parents are different than getting WP gifts. It's fine to get them one to use for your wedding, or that has wedding info on it. Also the mugs were only about $16 each on etsy!

    Non Sappy Father of the Bride Gift 1

    Non Sappy Father of the Bride Gift 2
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  • FutureMrs.V
    Super June 2018
    FutureMrs.V ·
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    Also please forgive the poor quality. The pics were taken off of a video
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