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tonyheidi2017
Just Said Yes September 2017

Non-religious alternatives to pre-dinner prayer

tonyheidi2017, on June 26, 2017 at 11:02 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 23

Our venue coordinator asked us to name someone who would be a "greeter" and get people settled in their seats and ready for dinner when it was ready to be served at the reception. We don't believe in anything religious and are not having any mention of religion at all during our ceremony. I'm a...

Our venue coordinator asked us to name someone who would be a "greeter" and get people settled in their seats and ready for dinner when it was ready to be served at the reception. We don't believe in anything religious and are not having any mention of religion at all during our ceremony. I'm a wedding photographer so I've attended hundreds of weddings and I'd say at the majority of them, there is a person (or the officiant, if religious) that is asked to say a pre-dinner prayer. My fiance and I don't pray and we don't want this at our reception. I'm drawing a blank on the many wedding receptions I've attended (guest or vendor), in trying to remember what that role is if the person is just saying a "let's get seated for dinner" and a quick welcome - what else should I have him do/say? I don't want him to do anything extensive, like an icebreaker - we have a great DJ who will do that later in the evening. Any thoughts on what I can have this friend say, pre-dinner? Thanks!

23 Comments

  • StPaulGal
    Master July 2017
    StPaulGal ·
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    Who is the "they" that is demanding a prayer or an alternative time-filler? I would just tell them that you aren't religious and you aren't doing anything like that.

    Like when our coordinator asked when/how we would be seating grandparents. We don't have any, so I just told them it didn't apply. I didn't try to figure out how to do makeshift grandparents because my venue wanted grandparents.

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  • Erin Wood
    Master July 2017
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    We are just having the DJ announce dinner.

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  • Breanna
    Savvy January 2018
    Breanna ·
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    Pre-dinner prayer is totally a thing! I like the other ideas of someone saying a thank you and that food is on the way - that will make everyone happy Smiley smile

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