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Non-binary wedding questions!

Amanda, on January 21, 2019 at 5:31 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 3

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Afternoon,

I am a bridesmaid in an upcoming wedding 2020 for my two amazing best friends who both are non binary. It shocks me that I have searched high and low for information on non binary weddings and have come up sort everywhere! I want their wedding shower to be absolutely amazing. However I need help figure out what wording or phrases to use!

Typically: Bride to be, she said yes, wishes for the bridge and groom, groom and groom.

What im looking to understand is across the board can I just use there first names and they?

I know it’s silly to be asking this here when I can just ask them myself, but I’m looking to gain some insite from the community.

Thank you!

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Latest activity by Lostforest, on January 22, 2019 at 3:19 PM

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Maggie · on January 22, 2019 at 12:38 PM
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Hey Amanda!! Welcome to the WeddingWire community!
I don't know any non-binary people, but my first thought would be to call them "a couple" or "the couple." Like "Come celebrate the couple!" or "Party hardy for the couple!" or you could use their first names like "Come celebrate Taylor and Cameron!" I would ask them to make sure they're okay with it before printing things out and making them permanent, but they're going to have to send out invitations and such as well, so they might already have an answer or choice in phrasing.
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Just Said Yes November 2019
Juliana · on January 22, 2019 at 1:56 PM
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You should check Offbeat Bride for more on this!

I am 99% sure I have seen weddings of explicitly non-binary people featured there. Gender-noncomforming (and otherwise LGBTQ) couples is one of the things they're dedicated to.
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Dedicated September 2019
Lostforest · on January 22, 2019 at 3:19 PM
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I identify as gender-neutral and I would second the notion that this really isn't the best place to ask.

Not even really sure what you're asking is specifically looking for help with. Like you said, you should just be asking them what kinda terms and language they want to use.
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