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Just Said Yes June 2022

Non-alcoholic "refreshments" Hour at the Church Following Ceremony

Lena, on January 12, 2020 at 1:53 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 11

Hi everyone! I am new to wedding forums and am looking to get some input on a wedding day timeline question.

Background info: Our wedding will be taking place at a church and the reception venue is only a 2-minute drive from the church. We are inviting approx. 150 guests, and about 60 or so of these guests would be coming from out-of-town. Currently, our ceremony is scheduled for 4 - 5pm, and then our reception will begin at 6pm, which will leave a 1-hour gap in-between.

At the recommendation of our photographer, we are planning to have all of our formal and family photos taken before the wedding ceremony to keep things tight after the ceremony. And at the recommendation of our reception coordinator, we are planning to do a receiving line at the reception hall doors right as guests are coming in so that we won't be rushed going around to tables during the reception. So then out of that 1-hour gap, this leaves roughly 30 - 45 minutes that are currently unaccounted for.

That being said, our reception venue does not really allow for a cocktail hour in their reception packages. So we are thinking about having light refreshments (coffee, tea, juice, cookies, etc.) made available in the fellowship hall in the lower level of the church immediately following the ceremony with tables/chairs and a little background music. That way, guests could briefly mingle, use the restroom, have a drink and a little bite of something before hopping onto the guest shuttle or into their cars to head to the nearby reception venue.

Meanwhile, that will give the wedding party time to head over to the reception site beforehand (by 5:15ish), make sure everything is ready to go and then get into place to begin welcoming guests into the reception hall as they arrive (most likely between 5:30 - 5:45). The receiving line would also help take up some of the 1-hour gap time so that that time will feel a little more intentional.

So this would be our final timeline:

2:30 - 4pm - First-look/photos, family photos, whatever other formal shots, etc.

4pm - 5pm - Ceremony

5pm - Bride/groom + parents/wedding party head straight to reception venue

5pm - 5:45pm - Light refreshments available at church to occupy guests

5:30pm - Guest shuttle starts circulating between church and reception venue

5:30pm - 6pm - Receiving line as guests trickle into reception venue

6pm - 10pm - Reception


I've been lurking wedding boards and have read many comments about how people sometimes find gaps annoying. But does this timeline seem like it should work out smoothly enough and not be annoying for our guests? It would give them a brief but structured breather between the ceremony and reception.

Let me know your thoughts! Thanks.

11 Comments

Latest activity by MrsD, on January 13, 2020 at 11:29 AM
  • Mandi
    Master October 2020
    Mandi ·
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    I don't think its necessary... but I'm very pro gap and don't consider an hour long enough of a gap. Lol.
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    Devoted September 2019
    Meaghan ·
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    I think that sounds great! I can tell you want to be a considerate host and that always makes for a really enjoyable wedding.
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    Super December 2021
    Casey ·
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    I think this is totally fine and actually very nice of you. I am not a fan of gaps and would appreciate this as a guest.
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    VIP September 2020
    Neeva ·
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    This isn't really considered a gap since you are providing refreshments so it's really more of a cocktail hour (minus the cocktails which is fine) and then time for guests to change venues. I think it's a great idea!

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    VIP July 2017
    Becky ·
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    This is what would traditionally be your "cocktail hour," so a refreshment hour will work very well here. Generally, during this time you would be taking pictures together and with your families and bridal parties.

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  • Samantha
    Devoted December 2019
    Samantha ·
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    I think this is 100% perfect. Refreshments keep the guests happy and the receiving line allows you to eat your dinner later instead of making rounds. This is smart
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    Super October 2020
    Leslie ·
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    Don’t be surprised if people just show at reception. But to have gathering at back of church is great. Punch might be a great alternative with an appetizer that you might be able to do - crackers, cheese, fruit is what I’d want.

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    Just Said Yes June 2022
    Lena ·
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    Awesome, this really helps! I just didn't want it to feel like an awkward transition between events that were at different venues, but it sounds like it should work. Thanks, everyone!

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  • Savvy April 2020
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    Personally I've found that if you feed people, they'll be happy with almost anything. Would you consider setting out games or something for them to do? Maybe board games, card games, or those wedding guest bingo cards?
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    Lena ·
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    Hm, that's not a bad idea!

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    I think an hour gap is fine especially if you make drinks available. People are usually hungry & thirsty after weddings so it seems like a very nice touch to offer those.

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