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Future Mrs.C
Dedicated December 2017

No wedding party- ceremony logistics?

Future Mrs.C, on May 29, 2017 at 12:26 PM Posted in Planning 1 9

We are going with no wedding party and our families and close friends support this decision. Some of them have even volunteered to help me get ready and take care of other details on the day off- which was rather sweet of them.

On to my questions: Any suggestions regarding the rings? Since we don't have a ring-bearer of a best man, what would be a sensible, but classy way of dealing with rings?

Question 2: What do I do with my bouquet? I am okay with holding on to it during the ceremony, but have you ever attending weddings where the bride did this? Did it look tacky?

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Latest activity by Jenny, on May 29, 2017 at 4:03 PM
  • JerseyGirl
    Master May 2017
    JerseyGirl ·
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    We didn't have a bridal party. Our officiant held our rings and also our vow books. There was actually a little decorated table for him. I handed my bouquet off to my mom who was in the front row.

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  • ambrok
    Master October 2017
    ambrok ·
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    Perhaps the officiant could hold the rings (or someone else that you are close to/want to include in the wedding somehow).

    Even though we have a WP, I've also thought about my bouquet & thought perhaps to place it in the middle of the table we'll be having the sand ceremony on. Used more of décor during the ceremony.

    If you want to hold it through out the ceremony, I wouldn't find that tacky at all...not sure how you would exchange rings though?!?

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  • MTB
    Master May 2017
    MTB ·
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    We didn't have a bridal party. FH held the rings in his pocket and my mom held my bouquet.

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  • Future Mrs.C
    Dedicated December 2017
    Future Mrs.C ·
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    Great ideas!

    I could request our officiant to help with the rings and mom, who will be in the front row, could take care of my bouquet. Ambrok- that was a very sensible point about exchanging rings while holding the bouquet- I didn't think of it!

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  • Lovecat
    Expert September 2017
    Lovecat ·
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    I think it could also be a nice honor to have your parents hold the rings; maybe your mom could hold yours and hand it to FH at the appointed time (with a hug or kiss on the cheek, kind of a welcome to the family gesture, if she's comfortable with it), with his mom doing the same thing for his ring. You could also carry each others' rings--yours in FH's pocket, his on your thumb.

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  • Mary C
    Super November 2018
    Mary C ·
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    Great advice. I had the same questions but won't be married until next year so I figured I had time to look and learn.

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  • Nick & Joi
    Expert May 2018
    Nick & Joi ·
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    We also have no bridal party. My aunt who will sit up front will hold my bouquet during the ring exchange and my fil will hold onto the rings and pass them along when needed.

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  • Ashley
    Expert June 2017
    Ashley ·
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    We are not having a wedding party but my sister will be holding the rings & my bouquet for me.

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  • J
    Super September 2017
    Jenny ·
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    I'm glad I saw this because I had not thought about who was going to hold my bouquet.

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