My future husbands family has lots of kids. I'm okay with it but we are paying $35 for plates for 125 adults. Honestly I'd like to have a quite ceremony with no babies crying in the background while I'm getting married. So my invitations are specific "All Adults". It's a formal setting as well. And the grooms family hasn't assisted with anything at all. But my family and friends have nearly paid for everything. $12,000 budget $8000 is already paid.
Am I wrong?