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Just Said Yes June 2022

No Parental Dances

Lindsey, on October 14, 2021 at 3:35 PM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 9

My Fiancé and I are not doing a father/daughter or mother/son dance with our parents. Can anyone provide some ideas of alternatives to do during that timeframe after our first dance?

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Latest activity by Frankie, on October 14, 2021 at 11:59 PM
  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
    Lisa ·
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    You could just skip them and not replace them with anything, or you could have your parents each dance to their first dance song from their own weddings.
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  • Allie
    VIP November 2021
    Allie ·
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    Depending on your family situation, you could do a few things. Like Lisa said, maybe have a dance for your parents if they are still together. There's also the anniversary song, which is when you ask all of the married couples to come up and dance with you and the DJ announces years that people are married and people get eliminated by that until the couple who has been married the longest is left standing. You could do a group dance where you invite everyone to dance with you and your FH. You could add a game in there, like the shoe game or something similar. Or just fill it in with extra dancing.

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  • Stacey
    Super May 2021
    Stacey ·
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    Just skip them, guests won't really notice and they only take like 5-10 mins anyway. Or, you could do the Anniversary dance where everyone starts on the dance floor, and then the DJ asks couples to sit down based on how long they've been married, i.e. everyone married less than five years sit down now, then everyone married less than 10 years sits down, etc. to see who the last couple standing is that has been married the longest.

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  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
    Yasmine ·
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    We just skipped them, we didn't do anything to replace them.

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  • M
    VIP January 2019
    Maggie ·
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    I agree with everyone else that it's fine to just skip these and not replace them with anything else.

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  • L
    Just Said Yes June 2022
    Lindsey ·
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    These are great ideas! Thank you everyone!
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  • Rosie
    Master February 2022
    Rosie ·
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    I've never seen these done in Australia. We usually have first dance, and at a set point (either a particular lyric, or a signal from the bride/groom) usually the bridal party and parents join, after which everyone else is welcome to join. Generally then the dance floor is considered open.

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  • Michelle
    Rockstar December 2022
    Michelle ·
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    Many couples skip them entirely. Not everyone has a relationship with parents. The extra spotlight dances are not missed and allow guests more time to dance.
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  • Frankie
    Dedicated April 2022
    Frankie ·
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    You don't have to do an alternative if you and fiancé don't feel strongly about doing something to replace them.
    However you can play the shoe game or doa quizz based on you and your fiancé as a couple (not the 2 of you separately) , the one who know you better AS A COUPLE can win a prize, for instance a champagne bottle, an extra favor or something.

    We are skipping the dances with parents, bouquet & garter tosses and cake cutting, we and are not planning to anything, so our guests can start dancing or chatting/mingling and using the photo booth sooner.

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