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Savvy September 2020

No more bride to be

Julianna, on April 11, 2020 at 2:12 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 9

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I don’t have a question, I am just so hurt how can someone just out of the blue tell U , we are so different and I can’t make u happy ! My guy said it was over couple days ago, we have paid the venue deposit flowers , this is someone who always told me that I changed his life for the better, someone who always says I love U , we bought a condo together and at this time when I am laid off decides to leave , he tells me that I am not happy , how do people just assume things . I know his kids r having a hard time with their mother and all the divorce stuff and he feels guilty, but his kids are not the only kids with divorced parents.... my friends r so shocked , I feel so used that I motivated this guy to do better for himself to get a license for heating and cooling , people say he started acting different when he started making more money, this person didn’t have nothing when I first met him. I don’t know what love is ,

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Latest activity by Jasmine, on April 11, 2020 at 4:54 PM

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RaylaSan · on April 11, 2020 at 2:19 PM
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I'm so sorry that this had to happen to you, this is a stressful time for everyone, but that doesn't mean this gives him the right to treat you like crap and leave you. I understand that right now it seems kinda pointless, and right now you feel hurt, but I want you to know that you have people that love you, and that you have a community in us that will be here for you.
Screw that guy, you deserve better, I may not know you, but I would have kicked his sorry ***
Take this time to cry it out to your family, to your friends, and to everyone you know. You will get over this!
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Faviola · on April 11, 2020 at 2:22 PM
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I’m so sorry you’re going through this right now I can’t imagine how you feel. Sending positive vibes your way
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Cyndy · on April 11, 2020 at 2:34 PM
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I’m sorry that you are going through this but it sounds kind you deserve better. Simone will come along that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Don’t settle for anything less than the best. Good luck and keep your chin held high.
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Pirate & 60s Bride · on April 11, 2020 at 2:36 PM
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I’m so sad & mad for you, and also relieved. Clearly, he has issues and you would not want to be stuck in a marriage with someone who 1) does not truly love you 2) is not ready to MAKE and WORK at a committed partnership, and/or 3) does not feel worthy of you would sabotage you/the relationship due to their own insecurities.

Cry this out with friends & family. Talk a counselor if needed. This sucks but many of us have been there and did find our soulmate/equal partner. You will too. ❤️
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Melle · on April 11, 2020 at 3:07 PM
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I’m sorry! That’s so awful ugh. I hope you use this time to reflect on what you deserve and want going forward and grow as an individual who is strong and beautiful because you are
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Fany · on April 11, 2020 at 3:35 PM
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My hear goes out to you. I recommend you look into getting yourself some (virtual) therapy. Know that he is doing this because of him not because of you.
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Belle · on April 11, 2020 at 4:08 PM
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Don’t beg for him to come back when he left you. He left you because he knows you deserve someone better. At least he back up before the wedding. It hurts, but believe me, time heals, and once you found the right one for you you will be happy that you didn’t settle for the “half a man” you once loved.

Sending you hugs...
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Andrea · on April 11, 2020 at 4:31 PM
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You deserve someone better, who will act like an adult and treats you like a queen. Don’t ask him to come back, it’s not worth it. He clearly has some personal issues to deal with before he has someone else in his life.
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Jasmine · on April 11, 2020 at 4:54 PM
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Im sorry, things are only going to get better for you tho. Keeping moving forward, day by day and the next thing you will know are at a place where you feel healed and ready to meet the REAL one.
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