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No maid of honor?

Cortney, on January 2, 2018 at 10:18 AM Posted in Planning 0 9
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So I got really excited about picking my bridesmaids shortly after getting engaged, but couldn't decide on a maid of honor. So I have asked 5 people to be bridesmaids (3 sisters and 2 close friends) and decided to just make the maid of honor decision later. Now months later, I still cannot decide. Is it weird not to have a maid of honor?

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Latest activity by Megan, on January 2, 2018 at 11:09 PM
  • PandaInLove
    Expert August 2017
    PandaInLove ·
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    Not weird at all. It's not required to have a bridal party at all, let alone a MOH.

    But don't put too much pressure on the decision. Nothing wrong with not having one.

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  • Future Mrs B
    Super July 2017
    Future Mrs B ·
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    No problem with not having one
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  • Aly
    Expert June 2018
    Aly ·
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    It's fine to not have a maid of honor. Your BP is entirely your decision, and whatever you decide is fine.

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  • BlueHenBride
    Master March 2017
    BlueHenBride ·
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    Not a problem at all. I've been to a wedding where the couple chose not to have a MOH or BM. They did not want to have to choose one friend over the other. It's perfectly fine to call everyone a BM and not have a MOH.
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  • Kelsey Brielle
    Super June 2022
    Kelsey Brielle ·
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    I am dealing with this as well, as I have 3 sisters who I am very close with and am unable to decided between them who should be my MOH. ( So I may just do all bridesmaids)

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  • Stephanie
    Super March 2018
    Stephanie ·
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    Not at issue at all.

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  • Summer987
    Super May 2018
    Summer987 ·
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    It's not a requirement to have one. I will only have 4 bridesmaids; including 3 sisters and my best friend.
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  • Emily
    Expert May 2018
    Emily ·
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    If you cant pick one of them, a designated MOH is not required. they will all just be bridesmaids and stand with you on your wedding day.

    ive known people to have more than one MOH, like have a Matron and Maid of honor each, and some to have a Man of Honor and Best Woman instead. its entirely up to you


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  • Megan
    Dedicated September 2019
    Megan ·
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    If there is no MOH, then who signs the marriage license as a witness? Don't you need two witnesses', your's, SO's, and officiant's signature for the license?
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