No Maid of Honor or Best Man

It's your wedding, if you don't want to have a MOH or BM then you don't have to(: Just

make sure that your BP is aware that you aren't having a MOH or BM. But you should just call them bridesmaids and groomsman.

I think I would just call them all bridesmaids and groomsmen instead but I don't see an issue with this.

Why not just call them groomsmen and bridesmaids? Same concept.

We don't have a MOH or BM for the same reason. Too hard to choose and it's pretty unnecessary. The BM closest to me will hold the bouquet. Not a big deal.

You can absolutely do that. We've had a lot of couples who don't want to have a hierarchy. Go for it!

You can absolutely do that. We've had a lot of couples who don't want to have a hierarchy. Go for it!

Yup! Nothing wrong with that.

Only 3 bridesmaids and 3 groomsmen. My fiance and I have been friends with our girls/ guys since elementary school. It's too hard for us to pick. We both have natural leaders who will take charge of each party. Thought about assigning duties to each person so it's not all on one/two people. They can all give short speeches if they want to as well. We though about just lining everyone up in height order too. We just love everyone in our party equally!

^ Don't assign these people duties. They're your friends, not your employees.

We're doing the same. 3 bm and 3 gm, no moh or best man. They'll be in height order, which works out well, because my fh's brother will be next to him and my sister I'm closest to will be next to me.

That's fine, but I'd just call them bridesmaids and groomsmen.

Just have all bridesmaids and groomsmen.

I don't get it, but hey, it's your wedding. Feel free.

We did that too. NO maids of honor or Best Man. All our friends are equal, no one is more important than the other.

I only have 2 BM, neither of which is labeled "MOH" My FH's son however, is his best man. I don't think a title matters much to your close friends. They are there to support you and your day. I don't think a label is necessary.

It's fine. They are just silly titles anyway and when do you even use those titles? Probably just the program. Personally I hate the idea of "ranking" your friends. I think it's a cute twist to call them all MoHs and Best Men.

Please don't have 6 speeches in the wedding party alone. I've been to weddings like that and it's too much. No offense.

It's totally fine, Amy. Just keep in mind the tasks the MOH and BM "traditionally" handle. This includes the bridal shower, bachelor/ette party, organizing respective attendants, being the Bride and Groom's right hand on wedding day, holding and presenting the rings, having tissues on hand for the water works, etc. Be very careful how these tasks will be completed if no one is asked to do so. Perhaps different attendants can be responsible for different tasks.