I recently turned 30, and there is no doubt that my body has changed. Since turning 30, perhaps starting about 6 months prior I noticed that I have no sex drive at all. I mean I have sex because my husband wants to, but I am not into it. It's even gotten to the point that it's doesn't hurt like something is wrong, but it's not exactly comfortable either. I have talked with my doctor and she said it's just simply a part of getting older and suggested lubes. I have tried several lubes, and it's still not enjoyable. I feel bad because my husband has started saying things like "you're never in the mood anymore", "I wish we could go back to having sex like we did on our honeymoon" "I'm getting blue balls" etc. Is there something I am missing? Has anyone else had this problem?