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Super August 2014

No hard liquor at wedding reception.

Private User, on October 9, 2013 at 2:08 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 29

My fiance and I don't have a lot of money since we have a now 8 month old son. We are planning on getting married this upcoming august but really haven't found anything that isn't what we could consider super expensive and the one decent place we did find has yet to contact us again and its been a couple weeks Smiley sad. Our original idea was to have it at the park here in town and just do the reception in the building that they have. We are going to have around 100 people attending. We toured the building and it has a large kitchen to make our food a keg coolers but we are only allowed to have wine and beer. Do you think this will kill the mood? I am not a drinker since my dad was an alcoholic and my fiance only does it on special occasions. I personally think we should get the place since it is only 400 to rent for the whole day and spend the rest of the money on getting a good photographer a Dj and everything else of a better quality.

I am trying not to stress but it's hard. Smiley sad

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Latest activity by Anne, on October 11, 2013 at 12:27 AM
  • Out the Window
    Master May 2014
    Out the Window ·
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    I think beer and wine is fine. Won't kill the mood at all. And hell, if anything, you can get your wedding party's flasks and fill them with hard liquor

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  • Amanda
    Super October 2013
    Amanda ·
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    No hard liquor will not kill the party at all. We are only having beer and wine also. No hard liquor will lessen the chances of people being out-of-control drunk at your wedding. Not that people can't or won't get drunk from beer and wine but fewer people will because no shots.

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  • Future Mrs. Coombs
    VIP March 2014
    Future Mrs. Coombs ·
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    I think beer and wine are fine. You don't need alcohol to have a party Smiley smile

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  • Kyersten
    Super May 2014
    Kyersten ·
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    We're not having alcohol at all due to some problems in both our families with alcoholism. We drink, but we don't want to cause problems with people who are trying to stop or who have problems with too much.

    So no hard liquor certainly won't hurt the reception... like FMrs.C said, you don't need alcohol to party!! Smiley smile

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  • Mrs. A
    VIP November 2013
    Mrs. A ·
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    Beer and wine is perfectly fine. Most people drink one or the other.

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  • Nonna T
    Master April 2014
    Nonna T ·
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    Beer and wine is great and a money saver too Smiley smile

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  • ~*World Of Whimsical*~
    VIP November 2015
    ~*World Of Whimsical*~ ·
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    Alcohol is not a no-all-end-all for a reception. If someone is coming to your wedding just because they think there will be free booze to get wasted on, then they are there for the wrong reasons and shouldn't even be there. Beer and wine is totally acceptable and beyond gracious. OTW has a point with the flasks, too.

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  • Candy
    Expert June 2014
    Candy ·
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    Beer and wine is perfect! Spend the extra money for food or catering! Great job locating a space.

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    VIP October 2014
    SoontobeMrsGlover ·
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    I will have a beer and wine bar ONLY at my reception. Having No liquor wont hurt, you dont want everyone sloppy drunk at your wedding and if there are drinkers in you guys family, a couple beers will get them feeling good. : )

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  • AndreaLily
    Master October 2013
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    I've been to weddings with just beer and wine and had a fabulous time!

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  • CeCe
    Master May 2014
    CeCe ·
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    We are only having beer and wine because I didn't want people getting super drunk which is a ton easier when hard liquor is being served.

    This should at least slow down the drunkenness, lol.

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  • P
    Super August 2014
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    I was originally planning before we were even engaged that there wouldn't be any alcohol just because of my dad but since he passed last year I don't want to be a buzz kill for my fiance and anyone else who wants to drink and have a good time. Thanks everyone! Smiley smile

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  • Rachel DellaPorte
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    I don't think most people come to weddings hoping to get wasted, but I do think that most people associate parties with some type of alcoholic beverage. A few glasses of wine are a nice way to unwind and have a great time. I think wine and beer is great.

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  • Mrs. McWilliams
    Super December 2013
    Mrs. McWilliams ·
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    @Amy A. - you give me ONE every week! I can always count on you to make my dayum stomach hurt....your sarcasm is priceless!

    But seriously, to Jennifer - beer and wine are just fine. We are having wine, a signature margarita and champagne...if the guests want anything else - the liquor store is down the street!

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    Wine and beer is totally fine; add a sangria or a wine punch of some sort and you're good to go. So many of my couples go this route, whether they have the option to do more or not.

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  • Mrs. G
    Super August 2014
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    I think beer and wine is great! If you have a bartender, it would be great to create some signature cocktails involving wine like a sangria, mimosa, bellini, etc. Then people will feel like they're getting mixed drinks but you're abiding by just beer and wine!

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  • Nancy Taussig
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    People can get drunk on beer & wine because they do contain alcohol.

    But, I think you're fine to limit alcoholic beverages to beer & wine.

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  • kysweetheart
    Super October 2013
    kysweetheart ·
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    I think that's fine. neither of us drink at all, so we are having a dry wedding. so i'm pretty sure your guests won't have a problem with it. i've only ever been to one wedding that even had alcohol, so i think it's perfectly alright.

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    Dedicated June 2014
    Betho ·
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    You can always supply the beer/wine and have cash liquor if you think it will be a problem. Just let people know so they can bring money if they want

    ETA: Der.... just re-read your post. You don't need liquor

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  • ItsGoodToBeKing
    Master February 2014
    ItsGoodToBeKing ·
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    Weʻre doing beer, champagne, and wine for alcohol

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