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Traci
Devoted October 2021

No Drama Zone

Traci, on October 19, 2019 at 9:24 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 8
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Hello Wedding Wire Community. Traci Here!!!! 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾

So my fiancee and I are getting married in 2021. I very excited except one thing gives me pause, My fiancee wants to invite his brother, his new wife, their kids AND bis brother's ex wife. I know it's not my bussiness but the ex wife and his brother was fighting on social media. I welcome them all with open arms, I am just weary of fights starting at the wedding. (Not being selfish at all. Its just our wedding day.) I have paranoid thinking sorry. Another thing is a friend of mine is bringing her ex and that makes the Groomsman angry. How do I approach the subject with the guests about my "no fighting" policy. I am planning on doing numbered tables to keep everyone away from eachother.


Thanks for the input Community.

May You all have a great day!!!!!

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Latest activity by Traci, on October 19, 2019 at 7:57 PM
  • MOB So Cal
    January 2019
    MOB So Cal ·
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    If your profile date is correct and your wedding is two years out, I'd probably just put everyone on your list for the sake of estimating your numbers and then not worry too much about it for now. Two years is a really long time, with good potential for the "fighters'" situations to change. Maybe by the time your STD's go out about 6 months before the wedding people will have either settled down and/or moved away, etc. If at that point there are still major issues between potential guests, I'd have a talk with them and let them know they'll need to be able to remain civil or they won't be invited. Good luck!

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  • Traci
    Devoted October 2021
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    OHHH THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU MOB So Cal!,
    Yes you are right I am overreacting how silly of me. I will do just that! Thank you!
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    Your seating chat will also help. For example, make sure your friend with her ex-BF aren’t at the same table as the angry groomsman. Most people are well-behaved at weddings though.
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  • Braya
    Savvy June 2021
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    This is a tough one but if you think it will cause drama don’t have them there. The Ex wife isn’t a necessity it sounds like
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  • Traci
    Devoted October 2021
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    That makes sense as well. 😊😊❤ Thank you for your input Pirate & 60's Bride!!!!
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  • Traci
    Devoted October 2021
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    I was thinking that as well, but I will have to discuss this with fiancee first before the big decision. ❤ Thank you Braya ❤❤❤❤❤
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
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    Omg, your seating CHART, not chat. Smiley xd

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  • Traci
    Devoted October 2021
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    Hahahahaa i knew what you meant😂
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