No declines yet....

You'll get some declines I would think. I felt the same - I had invited a tad more than my space could fit so I was really hoping i would get some declines and sure enough I did.

View Quoted Comment Thanks for sharing that. Were the declines mostly people who waited until the end to RSVP or that you had to track down? Or were they more spread out?

I got my first decline yesterday. It's our first one out of 36 guest to RSVP. I was a guest FH invited but I had a feeling they would say no due to it being a Friday wedding. I too get so excited every time I see one of these little envelopes in our mailbox that someone has RSVP'D

We got the majority of our declines at the end! Often when people think they are going to decline they’re hoping plans will change and that they’ll end up being able to come (they don’t want to commit to being a “no” if their other plans end up falling through) and also people who aren’t planning on coming anyway just don’t prioritize responding (very annoying yes, but that’s how people are :p)

View Quoted Comment Okay, that does make sense! I’m sure there’s at least one person who thinks that RSVPing is only if you can go not if you have to decline.

Oyyye. Yep I would feel anxious after 75 yes's and zero no's. How many total did you invite?

View Quoted Comment We invited a little under 170

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That's not so bad then I guess. Just have to wait They will come. I never heard of a wedding that had no declines!