No bridesmaids.

Yeah we are doing it! We are asking our family members to wear blue, and my sister and his brother are wearing a similar blue color cause they’re our “wedding party”.

View Quoted Comment Nice!! I’m thinking blue as well, dusty blue! Are you asking just your immediate fam? Are you having them walk down the isle as if they were the wedding party ?

I don't think it's rude to ask them if they'd be willing to match any of the wedding colors but I would give them the option to pick which color and let them know it isn't mandatory. I think it would be rude to make them buy an outfit just so they will coordinate even though they aren't in the wedding party.

View Quoted Comment Yeah it’s a total of 10 of us! Super small immediate family I told them shades of blue because it’ll be difficult for everyone to get the same blue. The family will likely be with my FH and officiant, maybe I’ll have my sister walk in front of me and then my dad walk with me.

I probably wouldn't go through the trouble. The pictures will be fine not color coordinated.

View Quoted Comment Thank you!! I don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable!

View Quoted Comment That’s a good idea! My side of the family keeps asking me about it because they want to do it and are so excited about the wedding. His side of the family doesn’t bring up our wedding at all; at least not to me. So I don’t want to ask them to do something they may not wanna do. But I also don’t wanna have only my family matching and not them cause that’s just awkward !