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Latonya
Dedicated November 2019

No bridal party

Latonya, on August 18, 2019 at 4:40 PM Posted in Planning 0 18
Could you give me sample programs from your wedding where you did not have a bridal party? Who walked down the aisle? What was the sequence of events at your reception? Help!!!!!! The reason I dont have a bridal party is because I am kinda quiet dont have many friends. My sister is acting big weird and wont even come. So she cant be my MOH. I only have 75 days to plan this. Help!!!

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Latest activity by Yam, on August 18, 2019 at 9:18 PM
  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    We had a small 55 person wedding on the beach and it was short so we opted for no programs. They aren’t mandatory so if you don’t want to do them just skip it.
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  • Latonya
    Dedicated November 2019
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    Ok. But what was the order of pp walking down the aisle at your ceremony? What were the events at the reception?
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  • J
    Just Said Yes January 2025
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    My sister in law did not have a bridal party either. Her parents walked along with her husband and the wedding surely went on. When it was time for the reception she did it the same exact way with no issues.

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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
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    He doesn’t have parents so his aunt and uncle walked down after everyone was seated then my parents walked down and then my son walked me down the aisle.
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  • Destiera
    Devoted March 2020
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    My best friend did not have a bridal party but they had flower girl, ring bearer, the groom walk down first with his parents and, then she walked down with her parents. It was very short but they chose to have it that way, it didn’t look too bad but the music was cut a bit abrupt.
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  • Kelly
    Dedicated October 2019
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    We're having a small wedding, about 35 people, and no wedding parties. My fiance's parents have passed, so no one from his side is walking down the aisle. My best friend's daughter is walking down the aisle first as my flower girl, and then my parents are walking me down the aisle.

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  • Kelsy
    Dedicated October 2019
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    We’re having a wedding with 100 guest, I have 5 best friends and I’m not having them in my wedding because I wanted it simple and stress free for the most part. My wedding party will consist of my mom, his mom and our kids. The order walking down will be the groom and his mom walks down, then my son and daughter walk down together, then my mom and me walks down.
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  • Allie
    Expert April 2019
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    No bridal party here. Everyone sat themselves, hubby walked his mom down the aisle and she sat, my dad walked me down the aisle and he sat. Ceremony.

    We had no scheduled speeches at the reception. My husband and i expressed our thanks to our family at our welcome party the night before. My dad said a few words at the reception on his own.
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  • Lindsay
    Dedicated October 2019
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    No bridal party is going to save u so much money and stress!
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  • 2d Bride
    Champion October 2009
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    Programs aren't necessary. I'm not a big fan of them unless you are having a complicated wedding (religious rituals unfamiliar to your guests, bilingual wedding).

    You could have the processional:

    * Officiant

    * Him escorted by his parents

    * You escorted by your parents

    As for the reception, there are plenty of things that don't involve the bridal party: cake cutting, dinner, dancing. You don't have to have toasts, and if you have them, they can be given by people other than the bridal party (e.g., by one or more parents).

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  • Latonya
    Dedicated November 2019
    Latonya ·
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    I know! People are making me feel like a loser though. The constant " why don't you have a bridal party?" With the looks of shock and disappointment lol
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  • Lindsay
    Dedicated October 2019
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    My fiancé’s cousin didn’t have a bridal party and she was the most relaxed and happy bride I’ve seen yet haha. I think it’s a very modern thing to do, some people are just judgy. 🙄
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  • Heather
    Dedicated May 2020
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    Some people do grandparents, parents, officiant , groom, bridal & groom party, the bride. but its what ever you want

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  • N
    Savvy September 2019
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    We are having a best man & matron of honor small & simple. The more
    people the more complicated
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  • Mercy
    Beginner November 2019
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    I have no one to walk me down the aisle,my parents lives abroad and won’t make it ,but instead my best friend is going to walk me instead.
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  • Devoted August 2021
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    Don’t feel that way! No bridal party can be a choice. My FH has lots of friends, and a very tight inner circle of friends. He doesn’t want a wedding party. I have very few close friends, and I’m having a MOH,a flower girl & ring bearer. Don’t let anyone make you feel bad about the choices you make.
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  • Bird
    Super June 2021
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    I’ve been getting that as well!!! I feel your pain. Wedding is 10 months away so I haven’t decided walking down the aisle details. Maybe ask some of your family members if they’d like to make a toast. Some people would love to!?
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  • Yam
    VIP September 2019
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    No bridal party either but no one’s walking down the aisle, it’s a small wedding so we’re going to be standing in the center of our gazebo holding hands and guests will come and sit on the benches surrounding us. I just really don’t want to walk down an aisle.
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