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Alex
Savvy July 2020

No Bridal Party?

Alex, on April 21, 2020 at 5:58 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 14
My fiancé and I are having roughly 50 guests at our wedding and we have decided not to have bridal party. I have never been to a wedding without a bridal party before and I was curious if anyone else has also decided not to have a bridal party?
(Disclaimer: we are having two flower girls) 🙂

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Latest activity by Kari, on April 27, 2020 at 9:58 AM
  • M
    VIP January 2019
    Maggie ·
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    I didn't have one and I have been to lots of weddings without them. What specifically are you concerned about?

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  • Alex
    Savvy July 2020
    Alex ·
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    We really liked the idea of no bridal party because it felt more intimate to us. I know typically a bridal party is announced on entrance following the bride and groom and on most occasions they give speeches, so planning my wedding I am trying to fill in those gaps. Did you and your husband still get announced walking into your reception?
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  • Alex
    Savvy July 2020
    Alex ·
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    I meant before bride and groom, whoops!
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  • M
    Master October 2021
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    We’re having somewhere around 25-30 guests and no bridal party. I thought it would feel weird if the majority of the guests were a bridal party.
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  • C
    Super December 2021
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    I won't exactly have one? My sister is my MOH but because she is literally the ONLY wedding party member and we are getting married in a gazebo that will fit just us and our officiant, she will sit for the ceremony. She has anxiety and standing in front of everyone, outside the gazebo alone would make her feel very uncomfortable. (Just mentioning that before anyone thinks I'm being rude, it's for HER comfort.)
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    Super December 2021
    Casey ·
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    I've seen lots of weddings where they didn't announce the BP. I was just at a no wedding party wedding and when the B&G entered they announced the couple as usual. Smiley smile


    Also, speeches can be from anyone of your choosing or you can skip them! Parents, grandparents, siblings, or even close friends if you want to ask if they want to. At the wedding mentioned above, they actually had a few planned speakers and then it went "open mic" and it was actually really beautiful (small DW wedding so no risk of it going on forever 😂) because very close friends got to go up and give these beautiful speeches, many of us cried 😭❤🥺
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  • Alex
    Savvy July 2020
    Alex ·
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    Exactly! With a smaller wedding I felt the same way
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  • M
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    No, we didn't do any announcements. But if you want to be announced, I don't think it would be weird to do it without a wedding party. And if you want certain people to give speeches, you can ask them to, even if they don't have titles. I doubt any of your guests will think of these things as "gaps".

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  • R
    Savvy January 2021
    Rachel ·
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    I am also not having a bridal party. I am having my son and the ring bearer/ best man (8) and that’s it. Also having 50-60 guests. It’s so much less stressful!
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    We had 15 guests, no wedding party. No extra cost or stress for anyone! I got ready with my mom & sister so I still had “getting ready” closeness with girls and some fun photos.
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  • L
    Beginner September 2023
    Lisamarie ·
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    We are also not having a bridal party! Our guest list will be around 40 people.
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  • Bridalbaddie2020
    Dedicated September 2020
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    I’m not having a wedding party either. I’m only having up to 50 guests because we wanted to keep it intimate. But we will have some of our family members walk in during the ceremony entrance.
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  • Naikesha
    Super September 2020
    Naikesha ·
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    No wedding parties are common. I've seen several and B&G were intro'ed into the reception. During dinner the groom's mom and brother spoke and the Brides sister spoke.

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  • Kari
    Master May 2020
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    Wedding parties aren't necessary. Typically the "big roles" they have during the ceremony is that someone needs to fan out the brides train (if she has one) before she walks down the aisle - anyone can do that role - and then the MOH holds the bride's bouquet during the vows and the BM has the rings. As long as you figure out those parts - you can hand off your bouquet to a VIP guest in the front row, your officiant can have the rings - you really don't need a formal/official wedding party.

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