So my future brother in law was asked to be the best man at our wedding at first he agreed but now he has not answered any of our text messages and didn't attend a brunch that we had for bridal group.
A little back story, FBIL got married last year and my future husband was the best man at his wedding. In September his wife and I had a falling out. My FH is really close to his brother and I would never take that away from him regardless of what happened between herself and I. I'm pretty sure his wife is the one that told him not be in our bridal group and to just ignore us. It sucks because my FH is really upset about it and just puts a brave/happy face. At this point he said he does not want to have a best man.