Night before wedding party

My friend had the same dilemma. She had her rehearsal dinner early in the evening and then around 7 p.m had a "meet and greet mingle" at the bar of the hotel. Whoever wanted to come down and say hello to everyone and introduce themselves was welcomed.

And btw, your guest would pay for their own drinks at the bar. This is not something you should worry about.

I don't think you need to orchestrate hosted activties, honestly. You could pass the word that some of you are going to meet up, but I'd avoid any kind of formal invitation unless you want to pay for some apps and a drink or two.

I'd let them know where you'll be, but not full on invite everyone to something unless you plan on paying for everyone. It doesn't need to be anything special, after all your wedding is the next day

You could always order some pizzas and beer and have people come hang out.

@LiveFreeAndBride my venue also has a bonfire....I really liked your idea! Any chance your getting married in NH?

I agree with Celia- if you make it a formal event, it'd be rude not to pay for drinks and appetizers. We're planning on getting together with some friends in the hotel bar on Friday night, but I was just going to email those friends to let them know.

I also agree with Celia- don't make it formal. Smores around the bonfire and a drink or two sound like a great idea!