These are some more dresses I tried on, I think A-line ball gown is the way to go for me. You all have been very supportive and encouraging. I have 1 years and 1 month to plan my wedding from now (well December 5, 2020 is when we are getting married, so I have time). But I want to try one dresses with sleeves (like actual sleeves not “lace sleeves”, like solid sleeves or solid sleeves, not the mesh kind. I did post a pic earlier about a simple long sleeve dress with a slit. Yes like that, open to bridal salons that carry those types of dresses in Southern CA (willing to travel to San Diego too)