New Covid Restrictions

How are all of you dealing with the new covid restrictions as we are going through this second (terrifying) surge? We’re from the city but getting married upstate in 12/05 and I am having a lot of anxiety about it. We’ve already postponed the big event to 12/2021 but we still want to legally get married this year. I feel like we are doing everything we can to be as safe as possible but I’m still starting to freak out a bit as we get closer ... We have exactly 10 people (immediate family + our judge/photographer) and we are doing everything at a private Air BnB to be away from other folks. We are all going to be masked for the ceremony (which is outside, even if it’s freezing and snowing) and we aren’t crossing paths with anyone dropping off food or flowers for the dinner afterwards. ALL OF THAT SAID I genuinely don’t trust that everyone coming is being as safe as we have been because, frankly, my fiance’s family is a bit too cavalier for our liking.


Any of you been dealing with similar issues? How have you been approaching it? I’ve already gotten into a fight with my sister (who would be traveling from Boston) over not wanting her to take a train, and I don’t know if I have it in me to battle with more people about health and safety guidelines.