Nervous

My wedding is in 91 days, 40 guest and i'm freaking out lol. I write everything down. So i have calendars and post its with things i gotta do. That helps me calm down a bit. I also love running, so that helps a lot. I think the biggest one is venting to my fh. I can't vent to anyone cause they honestly dont care. But just remember all this is temporary. It'll be over as soon as you know it.

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Great advice, Anna.

I'm 41 days out from my wedding and I'm so excited! I've had several freak-out moments while planning and my FH has been so sweet in trying to get me to calm down when it happens, lol.

The first thing I will tell you is to take a deep breath and if you have to, take a step back from planning and preparing for a week or so. After that, come back to it with a fresh pair of eyes. I'm an extremely organized person and this is what I did when I had freak-outs; make a list of the most important things you have to get done first, and then start writing down the least important things. After that's done, get a planner or a calendar and make deadlines for yourself for when you want things done by. This way, you will know your timeline and it will give you time to get everything done without stressing yourself out about it. Finally, take time to enjoy planning your wedding. Even though it is stressful, it should be a fun and exciting time for you and your future spouse to share together - even if your future spouse isn't too into the planning process like mine, lol.

View Quoted Comment I have everything listed and almost all done. My FH has helped with every step of the planning process (he's been my rock), I guess I'm just super nervous about things not turning out the way I see them in my head. I have fantastic vendors and everything.