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Beginner September 2022

Nervous

Aerial, on September 12, 2022 at 11:40 AM Posted in Planning 0 3

Hello!


I am super nervous and anxious. I am getting married this Friday 9.16.22


I am thinking about a lot. I am eloping at a courthouse and having a small dinner with my Immediate family my best friend her husband and my fiancé's closest as well. I have mentioned to them about having a "second wedding" where its more like a wedding with dancing and the whole wedding dress and more family and friends. I am nervous by the time we handle my fiancé's green card process go to his country for a month and come back that I might not even think about another wedding. We might have bigger plans to travel more, buy a home and have kids. I know everyone does thing at different points in their lives, but we are both 28 approaching our 30s. I think by the time I am closer to my 30's I would like to have children. I know around that age I think fertility is a little different for someone who is younger. I don't know. lol my mind is going every where today.


Any advice?

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Latest activity by Sonal, on September 17, 2022 at 8:04 AM
  • Bailey
    Expert October 2023
    Bailey ·
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    Take a breath! Your priorities change with time, yes. But this isn't anything to worry about! You may realize you were super satisfied and happy with your smaller wedding and not feel the desire to have a classic wedding anymore, and that's totally fine! If you decide you do want one, but also want to buy a house soon, create a budget and see if you can do both. If you can't, prioritize! Most people will say that buying a house is the obvious choice, but if you feel like you'd deeply regret not having the big classic wedding, then you know what to choose. Waiting 1 year longer to buy a house because you wanted to spend $x on a wedding is completely fine if that works for your husband!

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    Beginner September 2022
    Aerial ·
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    Thank you! I am also afraid other friends will be pretty upset with me, because they invited me to their Bach parties and weddings, but I am just eloping with family and may best friend who knows both me and my fiancé as well. I am trying to take things one thing at a time this week, but it feels impossible with so much to do and think about.

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  • Sonal
    Savvy August 2024
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    I hope the wedding went well!!!
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