Neighbor's wedding.

View Quoted Comment Posting pictures from someone else's wedding as a cautionary tale isn't right! It's judgmental. You could easily encourage brides to do their own thing without exploiting someone else's wedding photos. Without even blurring their faces. This isn't right. And you can't tell people to only respond "positively" as you're posting on a public forum.

View Quoted Comment Yes, you were very descriptive. I loved all your ideas!!! Especially with the blessing of the rings, may I ask, do you come from a collectivism culture family?

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Sort of, my parents were always very giving even when they couldn’t give as much as they would’ve liked. They always put others first, both coming out of the Great Depression from their childhoods, they didn’t receive many gifts if any and have always blessed us with giving as much as they could.

I’ve sort of come to this through various experiences too. I am now finding inspiration through Buddhist teachings, but I was raised in a Catholic household. Even when I was young, I always had a discerning eye and questioned things I was “taught” from religion and various subjects, so I learned to really think for myself too as much as I was influenced by my family and friends in my upbringing.

Nonetheless, less about me, I would love to hear your ideas and vision for your wedding sometime. If you don’t want to share on a public forum, feel free to message me and we can chat

This wedding looks beautiful.

View Quoted Comment Thank you Melle. That was the point of this post was to get "ohhhhs" and "aahhhhs."

This is very odd. Did you just go through both of their social medias and steal photos to post on a wedding planning forum? If you’re planning a wedding, share your own ideas, not someone else’s.

When you signed up for WeddingWire, you agreed to CG’s that included not telling other posters what they can comment. If you don’t want honest feedback, don’t post on a public forum.