Uhg... I just need to rant and be petty for a moment.....
Back story: my FH has a great gig. They pay him very well and he has a company car, phone, they pay for his insurance and gas.... Its an amazing job... bad side... his ex of 3 years works with him. Her family actually owns the company. I don't like this girl I have never been a jealous type but this girl has done everything in her power to insert herself in our lives... examples:
when we first started dating she tried getting back with him and he turned her down and she said she was pregnant... she wasn't.
a few months into our relationship I went on a cruise for my best friends wedding and he couldn't come.. she sat in his ear the whole time telling him I was cheating on him.
she started dating someone and he hit her and she left him and she came crying to my FH.
When we went to TN last year looking at our venue she called him and was crying cause their manager was being "mean" and threatening to fire her -_-
She told FH she wanted to fight me once because I "looked at her funny" at the gym.
Then we went to a company Christmas party last year and she was acting all buddy buddy with me cause she was dating someone with a kid and was talking about how amazing it is being a mom trying to bond with me because I am a mom. Then runs into some of FH's old friends that were around back when they dated and went on to talk crap about me and him and saying he only broke up with her because she lost a bunch of weight and he was insecure... then got so hammered started trying to hang on FH and kiss him.. we left.
there is so much more but these are just SOME of the MANY incidents.
Now my FH is a saint. He despises her but acknowledges he works for her parents so stays corgule but always reiterates to her they are exes and not friends. They work together and thats it.
Well she reaches out to me today and asks if we are registered anywhere... reluctantly I told her amazon.. I try to be corgle too because I know FH has it good there. She messages me and says everyone at AFI (the company he works for) is going in on a gift for us. I thanked her and told her to extend my gratitude to everyone else as well. then she says "I got something special on my own for you guys too" i AGAIN THANKED HER AND BRUSHED IT OFF.
I got the notification that something was purchased and I go look and she got this chess set that my FH registered for (he loves chess, I hate it but I know he loves it so I told him to put it on there). I KNOW this is super petty but I'm actually really agitated she got it for him. She tries to be all buddy buddy with him. Its a gift and I should be thankful (one less thing I have to buy him lol) but the fact it came from her because she knows how much he loves it... just seemed almost sneaky to me. Honestly I wouldn't think twice if any of his other exes did this but HER... everything she does she does it with ulterior motives to win him back and I'm just so fed up with it.
