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Need Some Help Here!!!

Rya Lin, on September 8, 2019 at 10:12 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 3

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Hi all,
I have completely placed my wedding on hold. My best friend said my fh brought a demon into her house, my mother has stopped talking to me after she began a relationship with one of my friends (after telling me through text, that she needed a break from the drama, after several attempts to get a hold of her), my fiance's father wanted to promote himself to best man. And on an unrelated note told me that there was something wrong with me when I did not want to share a hotel room with my fiance and his brother on a recent trip. And told fiance that he maybe should think about this.

I know this probably sounds like small problems but I would love some advice here. Thanks.

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Latest activity by Heather , on September 8, 2019 at 9:14 PM

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Cheryl · on September 8, 2019 at 10:59 AM
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Some of this sounds strange mainly these two things:
1. Did your friend explain why/how your FH brought a demon into her house? Sounds a bit cray cray there.
2. Your mom has begun a friendship with one of your friends? When did that start and on what basis? Did you ask your friend since your mom isn't talking to you? and FH can chat and just let hin
Also, your FIL can't just decide he will promote himself to best man. That is presumptuous on his part. Is your FH okay with that? If he is okay with it, then maybe you and FH can chat and just let him be best man if it's going to create a rift or drama if he isn't.
I am in agreement with you on not wanting to share a hotel room with both your FH and his brother. Was there a financial reason for the shared room?
These, however, don't sound like reasons not tot get married - unless he is in agreement with all of those that are causing you drama/aggravation. I think a heart-to-heart talk in in order with him. Just the two of you; maybe take a quick weekend trip with no distractions so that you both can decompress and talk in a relaxed state.
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Rya Lin · on September 8, 2019 at 2:48 PM
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I know it sounds everywhere. The friend did explain why. She said that since he looks into Wiccan, that he apparently attracted some dark spirit. And it attached itself to her. You are not wrong, she is a bit odd. And I'm being nice.

The other friend that started dating my mother listened to my mother when she told him that it wasn't my business. While she is somewhat correct, that's a friend. But the friend started saying some creepy stuff to me, told him off. Told me that what he said shouldn't have made me mad or upset. I won't go into that. Told my mother, and then afterwards she started not talking to me as much. And that's only some of it. But the just of that one.

I haven't talked to fiance on the promoting part. I am going to let him talk it out.

And you are right. This really doesn't sound like good reasons to hold a wedding off. It's just drama but I felt that my mental state needed a full break.
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Heather · on September 8, 2019 at 9:14 PM
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Just to reassure you, your friend should do some research on Wicca. I am a Wiccan and we do not summon demons or work with them. Your friend may not like the fact that he is Wiccan and may be trying to manipulate a situation. I don’t know enough about your relationship with her to make an assumption. But wiccans do not do that.
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