Need Help ASAP telling someone they can't bring a date to our wedding!!

Just say no, almost everyone you invited is coming. Easiest way since she is asking about enough declines.

Just send her a msg telling her that you have not gotten all your RSVPs back yet even though it is close to your date and that you are very close to the number of people that your budget allows. Tell her once again that you are sorry he isnt invited, but you and FS cannot just afford it. If she still gives you grief about it, then I would start to get a little bitchy because that would be pushing me over the limits. She is already being rude by asking. But then again at least she asked and didnt just bring him like some would have. You could also use the B list guest list as an excuse because their RSVP date would be even later than the one a few days from now.

If she doesnt get the point after that tell her that she will understand when she get married someday and not to come if she cannot come without him lol

Ohhh - I like the B-List idea. Genius!

I hate that I've suddently lost my backbone, I really should just be gently honest and say "I am a little uncomfortable that you keep asking - It's adding some stress".

Whatever happened to "Don't bother the Bride?"

Wish I had found this forum months ago.

Thanks girls. : )

I am with Lovely....just tell her no. You don't need to give her an explanation...just tell her no. And if you want tell her that you are uncomfortable that she keeps asking and it is adding stress on you.

I am with Lovely and Michelle on this one. 2 months is not long enough to warrant her asking to bring her guest especially when the invite clearly states it's just her.

She is still in that "honeymoon" phase so the thought of going to a wedding without him is probably killing her. LOL.

Just say NO!!!

Just tell her "sorry no. We cannot add any additional people. I hope you still can attend!"

Thanks everyone - I love the answers.