I am 26 years old and my fiance and I have been dating for seven years. He proposed to me on New Year's Eve at Disney World in the Magic Kingdom (so romantic!). Our wedding is next October (2021).
We have been living together for four years. We have built a great life together. I graduated from college last year and work full time, and he is graduating this December.
Since he is about to graduate, I believe he is going through a lot of uncertainty right now (with everything in his life, including me). I went through the same things last year, but after I found a job I soon realized that it was just a phase.
Long story short, he is now saying he "doesn't want this" and "isn't sure I'm the one." Is this just a phase? He said he wants to work on our relationship, but still says he isn''t sure he wants this. He says that he isn't ready for October 2, 2021.
We are still sleeping in the same bed. We still talk and act like we always have.
I am really struggling with this new revelation that he has told me, and I walk around every day heart broken that he feels this way about me. Also, I am so conflicted. I can't talk to my parents about this, especially if it's just a phase, because they will never trust him again.
What do I do? Is my relationship doomed? Any advice is very much appreciated!