I need some unbiased advice! We've decided on a small bridal party, its what we both prefer. Our plan was 3 each, my FH is asking his 3 best friends. On my side was my best friend for MOH, my younger sister and in the 3rd spot I was going to have my friend Caleigh. Caleigh and I grew up going to school together from kindergarten through University and are still friends now. Over the years we've only gotten closer. We take trips together in the summer to a country music festival near our hometown & for my 21st birthday we went to Nashville. I have another friend though who I've been friends with since the day we were born (literally, our moms were friends before pregnancy and we were born 5 days apart). Her family moved away when she was 7. I still consider her a good friend and we keep in touch making trips when possible, however she hasn't been there for me as much as the others (and she's so busy with school!)..
Is it rude not to ask her? I've been so torn!