We're having a fairly formal daytime wedding next April. Our immediate family is our wedding party. The men are wearing navy suits, and the women are wearing light blues and greens. They can choose any style or length they like, it doesn't even have to be a bridesmaid dress.
My older sister doesn't want to wear a light color because she thinks it will make her look pale and washed out. So she asked if she could wear a navy suit like the men. I said that's fine. Then she changed her mind and sent me pics of other things, asking which were OK. Most of her choices are jewel tones or even have black embellishments. I said those are too dark, but maybe she could try a navy jacket over a lighter dress. I will also pay for professional makeup so she doesn't look washed out in the photos.
Now she has decided to buy a "green suit," but a lot of the green suits she showed me are actually gray. She seems to want earthy/jewel tones when the palette is more saturated. If she's wearing gray and everyone else is colorful, she WILL look washed out, which is exactly what she's worried about! And she has almost a year to look for more stuff, why would she buy it now?
So I'm not sure what to do here. Many people told me she's not technically a bridesmaid, so she doesn't have to dress to the color scheme. But I think regardless of the language, she's part of the ceremony and the formal portraits. My fiancé has sisters too, and they are happy to wear whatever. I've tried to give her a lot of options, but now it's too late. I just want to know if some compromise can still be reached, or if one of us is being silly.
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