My Mother vs My Future Husband

My advice would be to talk to those that do support your relationship with your fiancé. Since your mother isn't that person, I would only discuss things were her that actually effect her like when the ceremony starts or where the ceremony is unless she has a sudden change in heart I wouldn't include her in the details of your wedding because it doesn't sound like she would agree with anything.

It's ultimately up to you and fiance to plan. Many brides do not have a support system so take full advantage of the forums here.

So I had this same issue. My mom didn't like my fiancé at first and I couldn't figure out why especially since he was so much better than my ex-boyfriend. I finally had enough of her remarks and negativity and sat her down and talked it out. Her heart was in the right place as she was worried about long term stability for me but she was going about expressing that all wrong, on top of projecting her own bitterness about her unhappiness in her marriage on me as well. Once we hashed it all out and she really got to ACTUALLY know him she totally turned a page and now she loves him! I'm not sure if talking to your mom is an option or how well she handles conversations like that but I would definitely try to get to the root to the problem. I hope everything works out!