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Just Said Yes April 2018

My jealous and vindictive sister chooses to marry in same month as i did

K_Sr_Love, on February 20, 2022 at 10:18 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 1 13

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My jealous sister has chosen to get married exactly eight days apart from my wedding anniversary day and in the same month!!! I’m trying not to get too upset but this is her pattern for years to always outshine me so she can get all the praise. She is not my favorite sister because she for one accused me of abusing my youngest son and that right made me outraged! She constantly trying to know my every steps I make in my life, yet even when I did get married she refused to be apart of it! I’m done and over it! Like anyone can marry whenever but when it’s a sister that’s mean, jealous hearted and not quite right in her head!! Hmmm. I ask for opinions. Thxs in advance!

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Latest activity by K_Sr_Love, on April 4, 2022 at 10:55 PM

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Hannah · on February 20, 2022 at 10:56 AM
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You have the right to feel your feelings, but you got married 5 years ago. You cannot own the month of March for all eternity as your wedding month. My sister in law and her wife got married 10 days before my 2 year anniversary and my husband and I were nothing but happy for them. I personally don't see it as stealing the limelight. There isn't really anything to outshine, as most people celebrate their wedding anniversaries privately aside from maybe huge milestones.
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Lunajay · on February 20, 2022 at 11:05 AM
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As least she waited some years after you got married to pull this one. I have read posts where sisters/friends have chosen the same year and month. I remember reading one post where someone's sister choice the same day but different year. If you asking if you should attend her wedding, I think you should. Don't hold onto anger so that it makes a decision for you. You know you sister better than us, so if you know you'll be hearing a comparison of weddings then don't put the energy into it. Now you are that done then don't go.
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Jm Sunshine · on February 20, 2022 at 11:29 AM
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I think I'm missing something. Unless you have a big anniversary party every year, who cares if someone gets married same month or even day of someone else's anniversary?
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Ashley · on February 20, 2022 at 11:47 AM
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While I think you're overreacting over the date she picked, (NO you don't "own" a month) and no one will think she's trying to outshine you or to delete your wedding from their mind. But in your situation, I wouldn't attend her wedding: not because of the date but because of the serious accusation of you abusing your son and the fact she didn't attend yours. I mean: you started disliking her way before she got engaged, didn't you? Sure: I don't know much about your relationship with her, nor your family traditions and dynamics but why the hell would you attend a wedding for someone you basically can't stand?
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Just Said Yes April 2018
K_Sr_Love · on February 20, 2022 at 1:02 PM
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Thx u, I am just not able to attend because me and my husband will be on vacation celebrating our wedding anniversary so to keep the peace I will definitely send up a gift but can’t attend.
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K_Sr_Love · on February 20, 2022 at 1:04 PM
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Thx u and ur feedback is exactly right!
I won’t be able to attend but my husband said just to still be kind and still show we care because she is family, we will send a gift up and keep on moving into our wedding anniversary trip. I just needed some feedback! Thx u for this! Much helpful !
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K_Sr_Love · on February 20, 2022 at 1:07 PM
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I know that’s right! Who cares! Just I needed some feedback because when I saw the invite I was shocked! I Became overly frustrating and the invite overly stirred up some unforgivable things from the past! I know I want attend because I have a vacation planned and to keep it all nice for a sibling, my husband advised that we will still send up a gift just won’t attend. Thxs for ya feedback! I needed to vent and get real feedback!
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Carlin · on February 20, 2022 at 2:02 PM
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I can relate to that my cousin planned his the weekend before mine
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Carlin · on February 28, 2022 at 12:52 PM
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You are not alone. I’m still feeling cheated.
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Just Said Yes April 2018
K_Sr_Love · on March 4, 2022 at 12:54 AM
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Thank you!
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Just Said Yes April 2018
K_Sr_Love · on March 4, 2022 at 1:15 AM
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Only if you knew what type of jealousy this sister has you may understand! I have 4 other older sisters that say she need to change her month. It don’t sit well with the family what she chosen but that’s only because the family knows her jealous history. And no sisters will attend her wedding at all. Not none of us. And your right! She can carry on and on and I don’t own any month. Thank your for your reply!
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Sherry · on March 6, 2022 at 3:47 PM
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Password protect all you vendors and locations. you dont want her trying to mess up your day
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Just Said Yes April 2018
K_Sr_Love · on April 4, 2022 at 10:55 PM
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Thank you! At this point I am over it! I have learned to let go let God deal with envy folks.
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