My Grandmother is not attending our wedding.

Let it go.

Im sure it hurts, but sadly you cant "make" her come if she doesnt want. How has you relationship with her been recently?

Let it go. She already said she can't make it.

I feel like there is more to this. Are you guys close (both emotionally and distance-wise)?

What's the other option? Of course you'll just have to let it go. You can't force her to come. Sorry she's being distant about it, I'm sure you want her there.

Let it go. This is a special day. You don't need anyone there who may not want to be there. It will only cause bad vibes and you don't need that. I'm in a similar situation with a family member. I'll ask once. I'm not going to beg or chase anyone to share this day with me.

She's an adult and just can't make it for some reason. Let it go. Maybe something came up.

Let it go...let it go

I agree.. traveling may not be something she wants to do. I'm sure she is still sending her blessings and love. Focus on other planning!

Let it go, Focus on your loved ones who will be attending.

An RSVP is a definitive yes or no (unless something comes up last minute). She said no. That's that. I know it probably sucks, but you've got to just accept her answer, move on, and enjoy your day with the people who can make it.

Kateland-- I feel for you-- my grandpa told me, flat out, he wouldn't be coming to my wedding, a year out, we didn't even have a date, he was in great health and traveled a lot-- I was floored and hurt. But on the Big Day, I had so many people I love, who did make the effort to be there, I didn't even think about him.

I'm sorry she isn't coming, I would feel hurt as well. I don't think there is anything you can do. She is the one missing out and it will just be a reminder to appreciate the guests that took the time out of their lives to celebrate with you even more