I'm a first time bride and this is my grooms second wedding. Wedding planning has been somewhat hard for me because in the back of my mind I know he has done all of this before.
I try not to bring up his past but things come out in conversation.. such as "We can't have this song" and when I ask why he saids I had it before.
I'm trying very hard NOT to incorporate the songs they had, colors, venue etc into our wedding. He picked out his own wedding band a month ago and in a casual conversation last week he brought it up that he didn't wear the one from his first marriage very often.. without giving it much thought I asked what it looked like and he told me his his previous band was two toned and had bigger diamonds...
I'm feeling very hurt to know that the band he picked for our marriage has smaller diamonds (I didn't give him a budget, I just told him to pickout something he likes).
I want to go back and pickout a different ring, but he doesn't want to and says he likes this ring and feels like he can wear it more often and since it's silver with a row of diamonds it matches mine.
I'm wondering if anyone else has these struggles of being a first time bride and having it be your fiances second marriage.