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My fiancée hates the color blue

Stephanie, on October 19, 2020 at 7:58 AM Posted in Style and Décor 0 26
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So here is the story my fiancée and I are planning our wedding for Xmas eve of 2021 and I wanted to do a cute princess/ wintery theme and my fiancée he hates the color blue with a passion. I was thinking a beauty and the beast winter wedding. She is my favorite Disney princess and I loved the Christmas cartoon. My dream wedding has always been to do a Disney princess themed wedding I don’t know what to do

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Latest activity by Adrienne, on October 21, 2020 at 2:38 PM
  • Shelly
    Devoted January 2022
    Shelly ·
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    It's a really cute theme and I understand that it's your dream to have that type of wedding, but his feelings need to be considered as well. Everyone here loves to say 'it's your day, do what you want', but I find that people often forget that it's also the groom's day too. Maybe try sticking with the winter theme but maybe a more muted blue? Show him different shades of blue and see if you two can agree on one that you both like!

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  • Minimalist Bride
    Master April 2021
    Minimalist Bride Online ·
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    It's all about compromise in a marriage. Could you consider doing other colors similar to blue.
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    It's your fiancee's wedding just as much as it is yours. You should compromise and find other colors that you both enjoy.

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  • Katie
    Super August 2021
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    Don't forget it is his wedding as well and he needs as much as a say as you do. I get you want to do the beauty and the beast theme but if he absolutely hates blue then you need to take that into consideration. In a relationship you will have to make compromises. May be you can still do Beaty and the beast without the blue.
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  • Stephanie
    Beginner December 2022
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    I’m definitely open to considering other colors, I just was wondering what other colors like maybe a grey or purple or something
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  • Stephanie
    Beginner December 2022
    Stephanie ·
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    Thank you I can definitely switch up the color I’m just really detail oriented. I’m sure we will come up with something together
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  • V
    Master July 2019
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    While I totally understand that is your dream wedding, it's his wedding too so you two should sit down together to discuss the colors and theme. Marriage is all about compromise. Since, he hates blue for whatever reason then maybe you could compromise and use another color as he shouldn't have to deal with a color he hates in his wedding. I haven't seen Beauty and The Beast Christmas in forever, but on the cover The Beast is wearing purple and blue and Belle is wearing a red and yellow dress. Maybe you could do purple and red as your main colors.
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  • Stephanie
    Beginner December 2022
    Stephanie ·
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    Thank you for that advice, sometimes I just get so caught up in something that I don’t see what everyone else sees. I get tunnel vision. I am definitely open to compromising so this should be an easy fix after I have seen all of these comments
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  • Stephanie
    Beginner December 2022
    Stephanie ·
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    I am definitely considering other colors I just wasn’t sure which ones would still give a wintery feel
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  • Shelly
    Devoted January 2022
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    I get that! Originally I wanted the guys to wear these beautiful deep green suits, but my FH haaated them. So we looked for other options and found a color we both loved. You could show him lighter blues that will give off a very wintery vibe when mixed with grays, whites, and silvers!

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  • Stephanie
    Beginner December 2022
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    We both agreed on the theme partially so I’m definitely open to compromising on colors I just didn’t know what other colors to consider he likes hot colors like red and oranges and browns and I like the cooler toned color like blue and grey and purple. But looking at your comment and someone else’s comment it gave me an idea.
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  • Stephanie
    Beginner December 2022
    Stephanie ·
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    Thank you I think I have an idea now of what colors I could show him
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  • Yasmine
    Rockstar October 2020
    Yasmine ·
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    Compromise and choose something that you both like!

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  • Dawn
    Dedicated September 2023
    Dawn ·
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    if you want a beauty and the beast (one of my faves) theme wedding. try and get some ideas online, it might give you some other color ideas. im doing a little mermaid and i have been living on google search and etsy and have been getting so many ideas.

    if you want blue and he hates that color. try just making your bouquet blue roses just a idea.

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  • Dawn
    Dedicated September 2023
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    Maybe red and gold with a little blue where he can be happy with it

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  • Dawn
    Dedicated September 2023
    Dawn ·
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  • Chrysta
    Rockstar November 2021
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    Reds & yellows/golds were huge in that movie! And those colors could definitely convey both Beauty & the Beast and Christmas in a very elegant way. And you could still do little pops of blue.
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  • Sexypoodle
    Master October 2021
    Sexypoodle ·
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    Disney is YOUR dream. But what are your FH’s wedding wants? Is blue the only color that can be used to create a princess theme? Compromising with the wedding is good practice for the marriage.
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  • Melle
    Rockstar June 2019
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    I don't see how anyone can hate blue so much aha but at the same time maybe you can use it as an accent color more than the main color then?

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  • Rachel
    Beginner January 2022
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    Maybe use reds and yellows? Those were huge in that movie. Green was in the christmas version. Blue could be an accent?

    I'm sure you'll come up with something you both love in the end Smiley smile

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