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Just Said Yes December 2019

My Fiance saw my dress

Bre, on November 7, 2019 at 6:02 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 19

Currently crying my eyes out because I had a picture of my dress and my phone and when My Fiance was going through our engagement pictures I had saved he saw it. Literally can't stop crying because I feel like everything is ruined. I wanted him to be surprised when he saw me coming down the aisle but now with only 30 days until the wedding he knows how I'm going to look.

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Latest activity by Stephanie, on November 8, 2019 at 4:17 PM
  • LB
    Champion November 2016
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    Relax. He wont remember any of the details. My H went dress shopping with me and his face was still amazing when we did our first look. Dont let this get to you too much.
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  • Bre
    Just Said Yes December 2019
    Bre ·
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    Lol I feel like I was being dramatic. Still sad but oh well.

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  • Jocelyn
    Devoted December 2019
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    Having it on when you tried it and having it on while fully made up are different! My fiancé saw a picture of just the dress but not my face since I put an emoji face on it. He doesn't even remember it fully and I didn't have the petticoat on or my jewelry. Just relax nothing is ruin, he will still be surprised when he see you walk down the isle.

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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
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    Don’t stress. He won’t remember what it looks like and with tour hair and makeup done you will look different anyway. Besides that moment is special anyway.
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  • J
    Savvy July 2020
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    He saw a dress but he didn’t see the woman he loves wearing it. Relax, it will be perfect💕
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  • Bre
    Just Said Yes December 2019
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    Awww so true Smiley cry Smiley heart

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  • Christine
    Savvy October 2020
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    I am sorry that happened. Just focus on the fact that he hasn’t seen you with hair and makeup done so that will be nice. I’m sure he will be just as emotional seeing you walk down the aisle
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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
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    Oh my gosh, I’m so sorry that happened to you. But listen I promise you it’s not ruined. I kept my dress a secret from my husband for 15 months before our wedding, and I was so excited for him to see it and he was so excited to see it, and then he said when I was walking down the aisle when he saw the dress for the first time technically, he literally did not even notice the dress because he was too focused on ME 😂 plus it’ll look totally different once you’ve accessorized, have your hair and makeup done, and it’s in person and in CONTEXT of being its your wedding day!

    Seriously girl, we were SO crazy about “you can’t see my dress until I’m walking down the aisle” and in hindsight, had he seen a photo in advance, I really think it would’ve made NO difference to the effect it had when he saw me on our wedding day!!
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  • Suzie
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    Agree with PPs, the day-of attire with you all made up will be different! And men are not ones for details (many of them, at least) so I doubt he will fully remember come wedding day. I understand being upset, but don’t stress! It will be ok 😊

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  • Gail
    Just Said Yes December 2020
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    I showed my fiancé my dress haha I couldn’t help myself. He did see me in it. Just a picture of it. But he doesn’t know any of the other details like headpiece and veil or what my hair and make up will look like.
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
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    I'm so sorry this happened! I'm sure he won't remember much about the dress. Even if he does, he's still going to be awestruck seeing you walk down the aisle as a beautiful bride! Everything's going to be okay Smiley heart

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
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    Honestly I think he won't remember it either aha especially the details of the gown. And whatever happens he's going to still be blown away by you.
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
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    That’s because with 30 days left, your emotions are crazy high right now. 🤗

    Don’t worry. It’ll be so different when he sees you in person, glowing, on a very romantic day!!!
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  • Ivy ORP
    VIP October 2019
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    You'll be fine and nothing is ruined. Even if he saw the dress there's still the hair, make-up, and accessories. He is going to be in awe seeing you, not just because he hasn't seen you in your dress before, but because this is the moment he gets to marry you.

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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
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    I am so sorry this happened and that you are feeling sad. However, he will likely not remember what your dress looked like. Also, you will be all dolled up with your hair and make up done and look so beautiful on your wedding day, it will be like seeing it for the first time! So try not to let this upset you too much. It will still be a very special moment when he sees you in your dress, in person, for the first time!

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  • Rose
    Devoted February 2020
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    Ya..I accidentally outted that my dress was a mermaid because I wanted him to read a WW comment that I posted. LOL! He was upset that he found out...especially because it was a totally different style then we talked about.

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  • Cristy
    Master May 2021
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    Girl, don't even worry. Before I went dress shopping, I had gone to the David's Bridal website to mark some as "favorites" to show my consultant when I had my appointment. Well, I did this at home, and FH was around, and he was giving me his opinion on various dresses. I let him do this, because I wanted to know what styles he liked. Not that I planned to get what he wanted, just wanted to know if there were any styles he really hated, or any that he preferred. So, he gave me his opinions, and that was that. I had my appointment, found my dress, and bought it. It was actually one of the ones I had "favorited" before my appointment.

    Fast forward to a few months later, when my dress comes in. I was talking with FH, telling him I was going to store my dress at his mother's house so he wouldn't be tempted to peek at it before the wedding.

    He told me he couldn't remember what any of the dresses looked liked that he had seen on the website that day. Smiley surprise

    So, I don't think it's going to be a problem that your FH saw a picture for a few seconds. He won't remember. Even if he does, it will be totally different seeing you in the dress, all made up, on your wedding day, walking towards him.

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    I feel like it's pretty much a guarantee that he won't be able to tell you if the picture he saw is the same dress you're wearing on your wedding day, lol. I'm sure it feels like a big deal, but just delete the pic and try to calm down Smiley smile

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  • Stephanie
    Super July 2020
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    Most men wont even remember hun. They aren't as detailed as we are. He won't remember hun. Breathe. It will be ok. Smiley heart

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