My fiancé parents won’t come to the wedding

Hey everyone l. I want to start by apologizing just in case my English is bad lol. Anyhow my fiancé proposed to me a few weeks ago we have been dating for a year and he alway spoke about getting engaged and all. He surprised me with an engagement ring on Valentine’s Day lol. I’m African live with mom and aunt. He’s Jamaican his brother lives in Texas with his wife and his cousins and uncles live here in New york( his only really close to one of his cousins). Anyhow in his head he had it all planed wanted to get married in the summer and obviously not my plan because I’m very close to my family and my dad isn’t here so him, my siblings aunt and uncles would love to be here and I more than them would love to have them with me since is not everyday i get married. Anyhow told him all of that he got surprised (not sure why, probably because he didn’t even think about getting a wedding). Everybody in his family got married without a wedding by or whatever honestly super weird.( I mean most did it for documents) he swears this is love and I believe him because while we were still getting to know each other he had someone that was whiling to do it for him(paying) but I didn’t agree and he soon canceled. Now like the African that I am and for the respect of my family we spoke about how the wedding and when it will be and my mom kindly explained to him that my family have to be prepared and we shouldn’t rush it and that his family should do the same. His mom and dad need to participate and be here( not like paying). He will have to cover but that parents had to be here regardless. Same as I would take full responsibility of my people coming he should do the same. Anyway a lot went down. His very insecure of his family, he feels like they don’t have his back. Idk how to explain it. Almost like he can’t count on them, none. Days after I called his mom and explained them the situation that it wasn’t normal that he knows almost all the family I have here in the states and my mom and aunt don’t know anybody from his side. Super weird! And that if we ever get married I didn’t really care about the situation my family has and needs to meet them (his parents). She explained to me that they are not in the best conditions and situation to be here but they will be with us at heart(mind you we not talking about today, tomorrow or next year). So basically the answer is no. His uncle, not even sure if he wants him to come. Idk men is it me or this is super weird. Any suggestions? Should I talk to his cousin yo try to understand and explain to him the situation? Truth is I love him but not whiling to give myself for life to someone we don’t know his other side or who my family or myself can run to incase if anything. Is not like I’m not going to be spending money calling all this people here. They don’t work or anything so obsviouly depend on me (dad and brothers)