It's Thanksgiving evening and I'm a lone.
I met my guy online in January and everything blew up. We instantly clicked and talked for hours every evening.
I traveled across the country to NJ to meet him in June. I paid for my own air tickets and even the hotel where we slept. It was love at first sight, I mean Chemistry.......
The next day he bought me breakfast and lunch which I didn't need because I don't eat breakfast or lunch but accompanied him because he needed to eat. I offered to pay for the meals anyway but he wouldn't let me. He later threw it in my face to justify the things he did for me to show love.
He told me he separated from his wife 3 years ago. At first he said, he moved out of their house but another time he told me she moved out with another guy. 🙄
When I visited him, the wife texted me and asked why I talked or texted her husband a lot. I played dumb but when I asked him about the wife, he told me his ex is a crazy woman who won't leave him alone.
Later in the day, he took my phone, texted his wife and told her I was a lesibian. I have been raped by several men hence I hate men. He blocked his wife's number on my line, deleted the messages from my phone and also deleted the contact. I recovered the telephone number and unblocked it.. His wife apologized to me for sending the messages, actually thinking I was everything the man texted using my phone.
Weeks later, I put together everything. He only called in the evening and always when he is going out to do something.
His telephone number is registered in his wife's name.
He told me he had a male roommate because he just sold his house and looking to buy one.
All weekends his phone is either off or he isn't going to pick the calls.
I confronted him with the truth about him living together with his wife and not ever separated but he blamed me for going behind his back to stair stuff.... He claimed he was afraid to tell me the truth because he didn't want me to leave him.He is so miserable in his marriage, he said.
He apologized and promised to tell me everything.
He wants to move in with me in my house before getting a divorce. His official separation will be moving from his house to my house. He doesn't like the idea of renting a house together. I own a house fully paid for but I don't want to bring a man to live FREE in my own house, especially the one who is still married and paying his wife's bills.
He told me that he will spend the last holidays with his family and will move out/ in with me permanently.
Something is fishy though....
He said he was going alone to spend Thanksgiving holidays with his sister in New Orleans but I learned intuitively that he has actually gone with his entire family. His wife's family is also in New Orleans. He said both his sister and wife's sister live in New Orleans.
I'm a self-made millionaire, I don't need anything from him. I want him to be independent and responsible though.
He claims due to some lawsuit, all his wealth is hidden,not even his current wife can find. He believes even I should not know because the people who sued him, though he already won the case may sue him again and if I know about his assets, I might tell the court.
He says even after the divorce, his wife will have to remain on his insurance because she cannot live without it.That he will keep meeting all her bills even though she is a b...
He Wants to come and spend a week with me in Virginia but keeps asking about where he will stay and the size of my house. He wants to know how much I got in total if it's liquidated.
He wants us to have babies and be happy ever after.
I'm here alone in the house. I can't call him freely to tell him how much I love him. It's him who calls me.
I have tried to end the relationship but he blamed me for making him fall in love with me and asking his wife for a separation and divorce yet I want to leave him.
He claims he is leaving his wife for me and yet when I met him I was simply looking for a single man.
Tell me I'm right to want to block him forever.